I really liked these scenes in Boruto episode #132 so I took a lot of screenshots of them. Let's chat about it. Like yes it's filler but I think it's also really interesting, natural extrapolation of Neji in canon.
Hinata's privilege is best exemplified by how she can be almost careless in her informality with Neji. It's not malicious but it is ignorant to how aware Neji is of the difference in status between them. It can be a concern for how informality in return could be seen as dangerously presumptuous of him, and also, as I've said before while discussing their relationship, it can also be protective of Hinata. Her 'lowering herself' to treat him as her respected elder and brother may reflect poorly on her. After all, he's willing to have tea with her despite these words of caution, so it's not as if he's totally denying a relationship with her. Regardless, it's very loaded to have this uneven dynamic in their forms of address.
When they first meet, Neji sees her as a potential peer, maybe a first friend, but from the moment he's handed over to the head family he always addresses her formally, if not always respectfully. By trying to make their relationship more casual and familial, Hinata is in a way trying to erase that shift in their dynamic, and so by extension denying what was done to him.
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This had me pausing the episode to mald but like tea. I'm going to end up talking about this a lot around Neji's death but Neji's defeatist fatalism is supposed to contrast his limitless potential and strength. He needs to believe in himself and Naruto gave him that by being the first person to not only tell Neji he's a genius, but to say that genius can take him anywhere. Hizashi loves his son and tells him he's a genius who should live (which Viz doesn't consider important because they're hacks), but Hizashi is also exhausted and miserable after years of oppression and humiliation and seeing no way out, so he ultimately says, 'You're great, but your circumstance will always define you.'
Hizashi is a very tragic figure in so many ways. He doesn't want to hand his son over into this life but he felt he had no choice. It gives Neji such a complex about his value as a person and his limits. Neji lets go of the grief and anger because he's also letting go of this idea of his father -- and so him -- as totally helpless. Agency is priceless.
"All of us have one thing in common ... one shared fate ..."
Neji is also a tragic figure ... like so many of our beloved trauma victims in Naruto, he was a very sweet kid before the clan got their claws in him and losing his father worsened this fatalistic view of his. His perceptive nature has been core to his character since he first appeared, but it's always underpinned with a natural empathy. Even at his lowest, his calculated words carry a kernel of this. He can't just go 'kys Hinata-sama', he has to talk about how her kindness has burdened her. He doesn't just beat Lee down to bully him, he cautions Lee that he will be better off with a rival his level.
His admiration of Naruto is rooted in how Naruto is an empathetic individual as well, but one that seeks to uplift others instead of cutting them down. This is why Naruto has 'better eyes' than him -- Naruto can't just see the person, but also a fate for them other than death. (Not spiritually resigning yourself to an ending before you really tried beginning.) And seeing how kind people suffer, being a kind person that has suffered, makes Neji worry so much more about what Naruto's kindness will cost him.
You have to consider too that though Neji isn't really a 'weapon' on par with our walking nukes like Naruto and Gaara, he's still a 'spear and shield' for Hinata and the clan. To be 'marked by fate' is to wear some sign that others have tried to decide what you will do and done their best to take away all your other options. This is being a 'tool.' He knows what this fate feels like for Naruto, and what it could cost him ... and mind you, being a jinchūriki has made Naruto hurt friends, nearly hurt the village, and ultimately comes very close to killing him outright, so Neji isn't wrong about how Naruto is walking a knife's edge.
Speaking of Naruto nearly dying ... under this concern for Naruto's kind nature, this idea of 'to the death' can go both ways. Neji doesn't want to lose Naruto ... boy, that sure won't be relevant later. You know what I think about a lot? Gaara's Infinite Tsukiyomi dream where he's a kid with a whole and happy family ... but what completes it is having Naruto there to play with. This feeling resonating through time into its most extreme distillation in Boruto with Kawaki's, "A world without [Naruto] has no worth to me. I'd rather be dead."
Caught yapping about the guy you like .... tween embarrassment experiences are universal.
I think a lot about Neji being willing to put his family on blast in the chunin exams. He had to think there would be consequences; maybe he hoped there would be some accountability on the village's behalf to protect him -- more likely he just didn't care anymore.
What gets me is 'The Naruto Factor', which is to say Naruto brings something out of people. This is the power of his empathy and his boldness. He got Hinata to get the fuck back up and he got Neji to open up about something that was obviously still very painful for him. Neji is brave for doing this -- it was what was needed to give a little bit of peace and justice back to his father's name, and to ultimately change the clan ('change the clan'; change the clan?) -- but he was also in the right place, against the right opponent, to have the chance to express himself.
Throughout the course of the series we see how Naruto comes to represent safety, comfort, protection, solidarity, and an open ear to everyone he meets ... he lets people be shameless and vulnerable. That Naruto as a series is about empathy and not being afraid to love -- that love is the thing that saves us and that love is the only truly immortal thing ... and the Neji who 'lives right here' (Naruto pounds his chest) is so important to these themes. I consider Neji and Gaara essential elements to understanding Naruto as both a character and a series through this lens.
Sidenote that Hinata says a similar thing earlier about feeling weirdly comfortable around Boruto because he reminds her of Naruto. They really are two sides of the same coin lmao.
"He's a chad, Boruto."
Neji is saying this in ultimate response to Boruto saying who wouldn't pity Naruto. Naruto is strong; Naruto has inhuman willpower. What Naruto needs is companionship and trust. This is what Naruto gave him -- saying 'You can do whatever you believe you can.' I'll tell you something about my guy Neji: after feeling so disenfranchised and helpless for so long, it's obviously very important to him to have that agency I was talking about. That is to say, per 'what story are we telling with Naruto and Neji and empathy and understanding', Neji is also talking about himself here. He wants to be able to save himself -- to be the bird that can pick the lock to its own cage.
This idea that so long as you are not alone, so long as you are recognized, you can find the strength you need is very "Ashura" by the way.
[There's another bit here I like but I'll save it for another post.]
Cute ........
Sob ... Boruto being named after Neji is a really nice way to continue the idea of "Neji lives on" they put forward around Neji's death. His legacy. How is Boruto as a legacy of Neji? The recurring theme of fate in the series often has me thinking of him. That endlessly branching future, baby ... and Boruto as this actor in it. This idea that 'the more you know of fate, the narrower the future becomes' -- that you can be limited by your own perception. Neji, 'the only fate we share is death', dying, but dying for something he believes in, saving the lives of those he loves -- does intent create so big a gulf between two superficially identical futures? All I can is that I think Neji would approve of how determined Boruto is to not let someone else tell him to not do something because it's fated to go badly -- and that either way, he will risk it for sake of his comrades.
Also, Boruto managed to reverse engineer techniques because he knew he'd be able to do them in the future and it got me thinking again about Neji teaching himself techniques of the main family. In their fight Naruto points out that Neji, despite all his fatalism, was still defying fate in his own way. You can interpret that a lot of ways! As an inevitability of fate -- his talent is so insistent he couldn't have done otherwise, almost an unthinking thing. Him testing the limits of his cage -- knowing that he'd have to stretch his wings for if he ever did see the sky. The only defiance he could think of -- 'call me lesser, but in this I'm always better.' The power of belief under the defeatism -- that he knew he could do it, that he had that faith in himself and his talents, that he was able to do something so incredible.
Neji speaks very straight-forwardly but he's a complicated guy -- one who is a master of a deceptively gentle technique, based in a circular art of evasion and redirecting force ... that he's good at these things says something about him and how he interacts with the world. He isn't ignorant of nuance, but he wants to find a way to step forward in a way that lets him feel like he's always reaching new heights without being destructive. He's absolutely a hero-type, and I think it's very fitting that his namesake is the big damn hero of the next generation.












