#butchspace

[septemberequinox]

today’s mood everyone

[folkbcy]

happy lesbian visibility day!!!

[butchnandos]

@butches (and twinks,i guess)

i bought these boxer-briefs about a month ago, and Let Me Tell You.

(these aren’t the exact patterns i bought, but theyre damn close)

they are so amazingly soft. seriously, when i have them on, it is easy to forget that i am wearing pants at all. they look and feel great on. and they’re pretty cheap, as nice boxer-briefs go! also they are extremely camp!

i only have 2 qualms with them. 1. they fit a bit tight on the hips, so i recommend going a size up (eg i am a large in primark men’s boxer-briefs, and i would probs go for an XL in these) and 2. there’s a little too much fabric in the Dick Pouch - so i’ve had to sew it a bit closer. buts that’s all.

so for the price, the feel of the fabric is amazing, even after a few washes, and they are definitely my favourite pants. i will definitely order more when i have the cash! baby butches who are buying their first boxers, i absolutely recommend these. probably go two sizes higher than what you would wear in t-shirts tho!

[cilantroeater]

i love butch lesbians i love stereotypical butch lesbians i love being a hairy man hating butch i love being an ugly butch i love being a nb butch i love feeling strong and my truest gay self in a flannel n binder i love knowing i will always love women more than men could i love being in love with women i do not wanna be anything else besides a butch lesbian

[indo-dyke]

I got the ultimate Portland lesbian haircut today and I’m so feeling it.

[femmesuggestions]

if you're a lesbian, i extend an invitation for you to reblog this with something you love about yourself. send some love your own way.

[bloodyknuckles-bruisedknees]

her hair is soft as the clouds her passion is endless as space her eyes are deep as the sea her heart warm as the sun she still makes you smile after years of the same jokes she still gives you butterflies when she walks in the room she still sings the same songs to you while lying in your lap she still holds your hand while she falls asleep she will always be beautiful

[lgbt-teenager-support]

im a butch lesbian and lately ive felt... disconnected from my gender? i dont know i just i dont even know what it means to be a woman and i for sure dont want to be a man or be male aligned what so ever and i feel like i do have a gender but i dont know what it is. its just weird and maybe im just overthinking and reaching too much but. what should i do

so i came across a term while researching once that seems like it fits what you mean, like not masculine or feminine but definitely something. it’s called Aporagender, and there’s more information on that here: http://aporagender.com

you could also be non binary, but as I forgot to mention in another post, being butch and being a masculine girl are valid things to be, but you said that your gender feels different so “Aporagender,” non binary, gender flux, gyno-fluid (relating to femininity but not exactly a girl), or some other gender descriptors I found on this link: https://ageofshitlords.com/list-of-all-tumblr-genders-so-far (url does sound questionable but it’s actually very helpful), could help you.

I know also that a lot of other butch lesbians (including myself) have trouble with gender and connecting to femininity but at the same time knowing they’re not a guy. There’s a blog called @butchspace that has really helped me, in terms of finding other butches to relate to, getting education on different butch identities, being validated in my own gender, and just being a safe space for butches in general, and I really think they could help you.

Good luck bud! I genuinely hope you find an identity that makes you comfortable in yourself.

- Mod Charlie