I'm honestly so relieved that biphobique AKA tenderlesbian deactivated again. She's said so many awful things about aces and aros. Her beliefs on who can use butch and femme blatantly ignore queer history, too. Not to mention she's also super panphobic as well as queerphobic. AND she uses conversion therapy rhetoric! And yet... she was so popular and had a lot of influence on this site, which is why I'm so relieved she's gone again. She had so much influence over wlw/sapphics, especially young wlw and sapphics, which is incredibly concerning to me as LGBTQ+ youth don't need to be exposed to toxic, exclusionary rhetoric. Teenagers may not be as impressionable as younger children, but they’re still impressionable! Someone with that much influence is going to impress upon youth who listen to that person, and this kind of negative, harmful crap that she spewed is hard to unlearn and get out of one’s head.
Biphobique’s stans can be upset all they want about her leaving, but it’s for the better. That is not the kind of person we need as a prominent figure in the LGBTQ+ community nor the sapphic community. Young sapphics deserve better.