I know ppl always defend Capricorns BUT THEYRE SO MEAN AND HAVE NO EMOTIONS CAN YOU PLEAS E EXPLAIN THAT
YES I CAN!! 💖💖💖 LOOK AT MOON AND OTHER PLACEMENTS!! 💖💖💖 lmao but that aside!! 💖💖 i think when we don’t really get a sign, sometimes it’s more to do with us than the sun sign person themselves (bc it affects us-- not them, so this is like a lil self-help stuff instead of suffering from another person y know?) 💖
Sometimes it can be us seeing what they need to improve on, other times it’s us that needs to improve/develop ourselves as well? 💖
I think to help, you can just let them know if they’ve hurt your feelings? Trust that an earth sign would feel 10000x worse than you because they’ve hurt someone’s feelings. But make sure to encourage and help them as well 💖
In the end, people are people and signs are just signs. 💖 It’s good to realize that everyone has their difference and can grow/learn to be better if we help support/encourage each other 💖 Let them know, and communicate because they’re – probably bad at communicating themselves. Help them grow, they are sensitive but they jus need an extra oomph to realize how to connect with that (jus like how every sign has things they need to learn too) 💖 I hope this helps! 💖
What's the point of an alarm if I just sleep 2-3 hours after waking up to it and then have a shutdown cause I couldn't keep to the schedule and I've wasted so much of the day -♑️🌑
is a cap sun/virgo moon/pisces venus/ cancer mars man the jealous type? what makes him insecure, and how they like to be approached romanticaly? thank you <3
Hey there! 💕 They could be, but that depends on them mostly and their approach to themselves.💕
[Below Cut: How to Care for a Capricorn - Cancer | Virgo - Pisces ]
Capricorn-Cancer is pretty protective, it’s about feeling like you’re the closest emotionally to each other that they’re mostly vulnerable about and want to be reminded on/proven on. Their ‘protectiveness’ can lead into ‘restrictions’ so it’s not like they’re outwardly showing they’re jealous, they’re just careful/being thorough/not taking chances. (Some might not even say it because they see their ‘vulnerabilities’ as having feelings for someone/caring about them, so most of the time they go through their sadness/jealously alone before they bring it up to anyone to hear/counsel.)
Letting them know what you can stand and what you’re firmly ‘no’ about– not just about them but about people in general reassures them. They like to give advice, so make sure you don’t take it the wrong way and just– take a moment to see beneath the layer and appreciate them. They want to hear your thoughts/opinion, but you have to understand too.
Take your time, nod slowly, just take a moment to really think about the words and don’t be afraid to reflect/interpret what they said back to them to be sure. They usually have no problem correcting if something’s missing (gently) or telling you if you got it right (they’re pretty picky so if you got it right then you probably did, dont worry about them ‘holding’ back)
They want vulnerability and intimacy but understand that they also think it’s their kryptonite. Caring for them is to ‘prove’ to them that your connection is real and it’s strong. Just as they feel for you, they’re unsure if you feel for them in the same way sometimes because they doubt themselves/their ability to understand people fully. It’s the looks in your eyes, your tone of voice, the tiniest touch that reassures them. Caring for them to quell their insecurities (as much as you can do) comes in two parts;
First is this intimacy moments where they feel ‘connected’ to you again. It gives them purpose, like a refresher of why they like you so much in the first place. They want to be reminded that they’re important but in the quietest ways. It doesn’t have to be proclaimed or constant, as long as it’s there and it’s fulfilling inside.
Second is more about everyday connection. You don’t have to be intimate all the time, but when you aren’t it’s always good to have a stable ‘platonic’ relation with them. Let them know what type of person you are, what’s happening right now, listen to their opinions and work together, let them participate in helping you when you make conclusions for yourself. What they want is to help, and if they know what you’re doing/how you’re going then it also ceases their worries/insecurities as well.
If their problem seems overwhelming (considering Capricorn-Cancer opposition and Virgo-Pisces opposition) try to focus on the Capricorn/Cancer part rather than the Virgo/Pisces part. With Virgo/Pisces, they have to deal with themselves (come to an actualization themselves). Capricorn/Cancer can invoke a defensive stance or strong opposition, but if you appeal to their rationality/logic or values they tend to listen to you better/work through things. (Mutables are notoriously opinionated, while the two Cardinals are just intensely stubborn.)
I hope this makes sense?? 💕 Good luck!! 💕💕
tl;dr - emotional food helps. Not like, real food. But more like feeding them good emotions and supportive ‘refreshers’ tends to help them a lot. Sometimes it’s just a different ‘mood’ or atmosphere, since they can be stuck in their ways. Think fire suns/Sagittarius or Taurus with Gemini in them– I hope this helps 💕
I have a weird chart ndjfo like.... I'm a Capricorn Sun, Moon and Mercury so I should be showing more Capricornian traits but then all 3 planets are in my 12th house which I've read can confuse the native about identity. And then I have a whole Capricorn rising but my Neptune is in the 1st which apparently also confuses the native. Does... Does this sound right? I'm so confused hahaha
hey heyy that’s alright 💓 it makes sense don’t worry!! 💓💓
[Below Cut: How to Help Capricorn in the 12H - Sun | Moon | Mercury | ASC - Neptune in 1st ]
The 12H can also talk about closure/the subconscious and healing (as well as other things) but since it’s about the unseen (not hidden, just unseen!! this is important!!!)– the person mostly has to realize that it’s the ‘in-between the lines’ of what they’re doing that they can notice their 12H (especially with a sign like Capricorn)
Try looking for patterns about yourself, especially one to do with your emotional reaction to helping others out/healing yourself. Whether it feels like there’s more sensitivity there, like it’s become your principle-point to do something for others a certain thing/way, or how you generally try to support others in their own problems/paths/talk about stuff should help you realize there’s a pattern there somewhere that’s underlying your action (basically identifying the motive).
The 12H brings out Capricorn’s more generous nature, the side who cares and looks out for people but does so in their own way. To understand the Capricorn nature you kind of have to figure out which part of the Capricorn sign is it that you’re touching on.
Try making notes, kind of like a mantra to yourself. And practice utilizing opportunities presented to you to take action in a different way. You might find it easier to identify how it is your Capricorn is working this way, and thus you can also realize what it is you’re missing out on as well.
The easiest way to tackle this is to maybe understand what triggers your guilt. What do you feel guilty about? What about in the context of emotions? Why does it make you think you’re guilty for something?
If you focus in on your feelings towards other people– even if your Venus isn’t involved, the Capricorn should exhibit some traits relating to that since its in your Sun-Moon-Mercury (therefore, you can try to understand your conscious decisions and nature more that way)
I hope you find this helpful/useful 💓 the 12H is unseen, but it usually isn’t malicious in nature. These kind of things, you can unfurl by your own motivation. 💓 It’s not like the 8H where sometimes things are intentionally hidden from the person. 💓 So I hope you gain strength!! 💓💓 You can do it!! 💓
PS. Also make sure not to cry yourself to sleep when the stress gets too much 💓
Heyyyy I was wondering if you could do compatibility between a Capricorn female and a libra male? Sun signs please. Also, thank you for such informative and interesting posts!
Hey there!! 💕💕💕 For sure! I’d love to help! I’ll do what I can but I don’t know much from the libra’s perspective so this might be more capricorn-focus and how to help the capricorn learn to work with the libra if that’s alright?? 💕💕 And thank you for liking the posts!! 💕💕
Note: low-key applicable to Taehyung-Jimin dynamic as well 💕
[Below Cut: Capricorn - Libra Suns Compatibility]
One of the things about this pairing is that it plays on the archetype, both Capricorn and Libra Suns usually don’t tend to identify with their ‘persona’ they have completely ( ‘serious’ ‘playful’ ‘flirty’ ‘stubborn’)
But together they enhance each other’s lesser seen trait, bringing it out into the open naturally, because there’s some vibing/acceptance of the parts that aren’t normally accepted so naturally within each other
For example: Libras might find themselves not so compromising and is a very stubborn person (think of themselves as such) – Capricorn enhances the compromising aspect by showing them that they can be stubborn (equally stubborn to the Libra) yet there’s also a matter of principality.
There are things out there that the Capricorn holds above stubbornness– such as loyalty, trust, the better good.
The Libra themselves, teaches the Capricorn the better way to trust others, the better way to co-operate or achieve their goals. The Libra teaches and the Capricorn listens. The Capricorn shows and the Libra learns.
It’s a matter of learning/enhancing flexibility within each other. Exercising it together by placing the problems and challenges directly in front of each other and guiding them to overcome their adversaries.
Both Capricorn and Libra tends to be a tad bit stiff individually (within themselves) that’s why when it comes to their personal problems/adversary, they benefit a lot when the other simplifies things and poses it right in front of them to help guide them through and teach them how to overcome it.
Capricorn and Libra together may find each other taking on the archetypal ‘role’ more often towards each other.
With Capricorn they may find themselves ‘pushing’ more (looking out for the Libra) asking the Libra what they want, showing them a list of things they can choose from and being more direct/cutting down their worries into something more manageable for the Libra to work towards overcoming easier.
Capricorn becomes more direct, reliable and disciplined. Although they might not be direct, reliable and disciplined naturally (by themselves) within the context of the Libra, the Capricorn finds its purpose in advice-giving and consoling the Libra.
The Libra might find themselves becoming more flexible of the pair. They might find themselves enhancing the Capricorn’s perspective on things, giving subjectivity an importance within the Capricorn’s strictly objective views on life/matters. They become more philosophical, more playful, a lot more tolerance/forgiving than the Capricorn’s hard/concrete philosophies.
The Libra is more poetic, a life-giver, the Venusian trait is enhanced within the realms of the Capricorn’s discipline and they find their own purpose in soothing and editing the Capricorn’s ways of thinking (to make it easier on the Capricorn’s life in the future)
Another thing about Libra/Capricorn is that although these signs are squares, their relationships once given a solid foundation tends to be long-lasting and fulfilling.
Both of these signs relies on analytical qualities each other has, their own sense of purpose/self-drive as well as the ‘special’ traits each other brings (the enhancing stuff from earlier)
Venus-Saturn (their natural rulers) both diurnal, makes the effect they have on each other seen more openly and confronted more directly.
There’s no ‘oh he/she/they does this but is actually this’ it’s more like ‘i get where they’re coming from but the way they do it is the problem’ and they resolve it at face-value instead.
It’s blunt, almost direct. But with Libra’s Venus and Capricorn’s Saturn these things tends to hurt but in a constructive criticism way.
Anything between them is resolvable, just watch out for issues around emotionality and sensitivity.
With Libra in the Sun especially, this placement is in it’s fall which can mean the Libra sun themselves feels a natural inclination for their other aspects to ‘cover their faces’ (*with regards to understanding the Libra themselves)
Capricorn Sun who doesn’t suffer the same fate doesn’t understand the Libra’s nature completely, tries to handle the situation by pulling the Libra’s hand forcefully away from their face. This is a matter of sensitivity and not enough trust/understanding between the pair.
Leading the Libra Sun themselves to feel like they’re more emotional of the pair even if they’re an air sign. And thus, can cause confusion and ‘disgracing’ the air sign themselves if the problem with Capricorn’s lack of emotional sensitivity isn’t met.
Watch for signs of forcefulness and try not to ‘disgrace’ each other (not in the traditional sense, ‘disgracing’ stems from understanding what the other signs holds dear and upholding them, not tearing them down/away and trying to make them something they’re not)
The Capricorn might think they know who the Libra is, but that’s not always as they are. The Capricorn likes solidity and can be prone to making up their minds on people based on their experience with them but that’s still not who they are.
The Capricorn has to learn how to meet their own requirement– of trusting/understanding someone they cannot understand (squares) by being resourceful and gathering information as quietly as they can about the Libra (not confronting/digging into them so forcefully).
The Libra will lead the way in this part of the relationship, but the Capricorn has to learn how to be tactful when dealing with the Libra (thus the ‘quiet’ and resourcefulness) and give them the respect they deserve– to be all that they are, without forcing them to choose who they can be to the Capricorn.
You can think of it as not hurting each other’s ego whilst not knowing each other’s ego completely in a way.
It’s a bit hard to do, but both Libra and Capricorn are always so direct and challenging towards themselves that when they’re dealing with each other they often have to learn how to show each other respect, sensitivity, learn from having distance and confront their own emotional values as well.
Both of these signs individually are more of the type to ‘want to get close’ to one another (like up-front and to-the-face) but the important lesson in them being together and learning how to operate without that contact completely.
So in a way, Libra/Capricorn being together is like learning how to reconnect with their own archetype and confronting their flaws together as well.
(Libra with the Sun/ego – hurting the Capricorn’s ego by ‘teaching’ them what to do, making the Capricorn question the validity of the Libra’s ego themselves.
Capricorn with the Moon/emotional- hurting the Libra’s emotionality, making the Libra point out the Capricorn’s lack of sensitivity/emotional suppression themselves)
They’re a great yin-yang pairing, think of it was like one partner wanting to do something but does too much of it and the other pulling them back into safety by being sure-footed of themselves.
This applies to Libra socially, doing too much of something sometimes and the Capricorn being like ‘no, let’s go we don’t need that.’
It also applies to the Capricorn intrapersonally, being too hard and the Libra going ‘no, you need more of this other thing, so let me take and show you how’
Most of the time, the relationship is based around equal partnership which is the best part of any relationship. There are things to learn, enhance and grow individually and together for each other.
The Capricorn doesn’t feel like they’re baby-sitting, and the Libra doesn’t feel like they’re a liability. There are natural flaws within each other that they make up for, thus the relationship has an equally fulfilling, trusting and solid foundation to build on.
Another thing about the relationship is that it’s a great friends-to-lovers trope. Because the transition here is natural if they take the steps to be lovers (together, not forcefully).
In a way, you can think of the Capricorn as the Mars to Libra’s Venus. And the Libra as the Moon/Mercury to Capricorn’s Saturn.
Because of their solid foundation and confronting all the complications based on a platonic level (you can be platonic and romantic at the same time in a relationship, it’s possible. Or you can be just platonic or just romantic too. But with Libra/Capricorn they tend to surface into having both– sooner or later in the relationship, which is a good thing!)
Both parties have a good grasps of who the other is and what their flaws/talents are without being disillusioned by one another. Thus, even with all the fights or confronting, the relationship won’t break within a day.
Most of the time, because of this ‘double relationship’ they have with each other, if you give them time to confront their own ego/emotional hurt they will come back and start something from the foundation they built together. One storm day doesn’t break the house completely.
Think of it as Venus (social relationship and in this case, relationships on all levels/ego) and Saturn (teaching, discipline, overcoming hardship, building solid foundation) coming together.
What they build is something that will last, and no matter where the journey/roller coaster takes them they will grow/learn something from each other that is so much more valuable to them than any other relationship (individually as a person, separated from each other as well.)
Anyways that’s all I have so far on Libra/Capricorn! 💕Honestly Libra/Capricorn is probably one of my favourite pairing just because there’s so much to gain from each other. It feels like the Cancer/Capricorn archetype but more fitting to the ‘roles being played’ here in a way? There are some advantages, but there are also disadvantages like most relationships. I hope it didn’t feel like I focused/doomed the relationship but instead explain how to work through it for the pair? 💕That was my intentions, I’m also a Capricorn Sun who’s been with a Libra and I can guarantee you– it takes time but it’s worth it. Thanks for reading! 💕
Hello! I absolutely love your blog and how kind you are. I was wondering if you could tell me how a relationship between a libra sun, gemini moon, Scorpio Venus and mars person and a cap sun, aqua Venus, and libra mars and moon would go? I have a friend who is really attracted someone with the first placements and she is recently getting into astrology and some snotty astrology people have told her she shouldn't end up in a relationship with him because of their placements despite the fact
(2) that they both like each other very much. So I figured I would ask you since you generally are a LOT less snotty and your content is enjoyable to read while being information heavy. Thanks! I understand if you don’t want to do it though!
Hey there! 💕Thank you for loving my blog ;u; that was really kind and considerate of you 💕 and thank you for giving me the back story. 💕 I normally don’t do this unless it’s briefly/just to help someone else, but I want to help your friend feel better about herself as well. So this post is going to be mid-length instead. (also, you looking out for your friend is really nice of you 💕 im sure she appreciates you lots!!💕)
[Below Cut: Capricorn/Scorpio Compatibility, Capricorn/Libra Compatibility - Air Placements working with Earth/Water Placements - Personalized For the Anon’s Friend]
EDIT: I got an ask earlier from someone who wishes you well!!! 💕If you haven’t seen it, it’s here! 💕I hope this cheers you up a bit first before we dive into the post! 💕
Astrology should be used with discretion, and to that (since I don’t know the full details) alot of it is used to warn others rather than encourage. If the astrologer just straight up said that they shouldn’t date because of certain bad placements then that’s really on the astrologer.
You can warn others, but sensibilities and discretion in knowing the susceptibility of the people you’re warning it to is their responsibility as well.
It’s a touchy thing especially with synastry/compatibility because that doesn’t just effect you/your self-improvement, it effectively look at the other person’s problems/flaws as well.
A lot of feelings getting hurt/misunderstanding happens because a lot of the time, people think it’s either something they can’t help/work on or it’s something that comes directly from them/they’re the one to blame. That’s not the case, that’s the unreliability of putting two charts together and comparing compatibility that way.
You can look at overlays, synastry, composite, davidson etc. But none of that matters as the actuality of what’s happening in reality. The person’s feelings or conscious decision, is much more important than being compatible or not.
Since they already got the gist from another astrology, here’s my interpretation of their compatibility:
*Note: I don’t have the guys mercury, their house overlays or their actual aspects (if it’s aspected) so this is just going to go from what I have. *it might not be accurate so be warned*
Libra Sun | Gemini Moon | Scorpio Venus + Mars
Capricorn Sun | Libra Moon | Aquarius Venus | Libra Mars
Deep connection and understanding that comes from their suns (Capricorn/Libra). Most people comment on it being squares and thus ‘looking for different things in life/challenging aspect’ but it’s actually?? pretty good??
The squares in this case is talking about their difference in approach and methods in general. But with Capricorn and Libra themselves there’s always an underlying sense/feeling of satisfaction, contentment and stability that runs between both of them.
Trust wasn’t ever the issue because it was built organically. On the subconscious sense, both of these signs shows through demonstration that they could be trusted.
This includes knowing intuitively that the others will always be in their corners/have their backs, or a sense of presence (when you just want someone to talk to/be there for you/come get you) between each other.
Undeniably, this is beneficial to both of these people because it’s a solid foundation.
With their core-understanding of each other established, their differences are easily solved/looked at in a productive light.
Libra finds their hesitancy met with Capricorn’s patience/tolerance and easily given kindness.
The Capricorn with the more focused energy doesn’t ever rush the Libra like most other signs tends to do, preferring to let the Libra figure things out themselves.
(Mostly through prompting or gentle prodding/reminding the Libra of their better quality and focusing on that instead/no-nonsense)
The Capricorn understands the value of self-empowerment/doing things for themselves, and the Libra appreciates that because they want to be self-sufficient too. They learn how to be, through getting the help/guidance they needed.
Capricorn also has a good chemistry with the guy’s Scorpio placements. It introduces passion to the mix.
Passion in this sense, is passion about each other as a person.
Capricorn themselves can find it hard to establish their reactive emotions in their core (truly feeling their main motivation/goals/emotionality and subconscious) – Scorpio’s energy brings a self-search kind of light to the Capricorn.
Scorpio provides an easiness to the Capricorn’s murkiness inside of themselves. Like watering dry hard earth until the soil gives to soft fertile land. Scorpio’s enthusiasm and ‘vision’ is what helps the Capricorn connect with a part of themselves.
Note that on the surface level, Scorpio/Capricorn compatibility is based around being on the same/similar wavelengths to each other.
Capricorn provides guidance and dryness to the Scorpio (which is a fantastic thing, considering most Scorpio feels like they’re drowning in a tumultuous wave all the time)
While the Scorpio provides happiness and support (through loyalty/dedication) for the Capricorn to cherish as well.
On a deeper level – you see the Scorpio feeling/doing something that’s very obviously deeply connected their person and it resonates within your very core as if you have that passion too. (*Note: this is most likely after being in the relationship for a while, when commitment is formed and loyalty/stability is firmly established/locked down. It’s something to look forward to.)
It’s something Capricorn with Aquarius in the mix rarely felt on a subconscious level, mostly their passion levels around their conscious knowledge of themselves. Thus, most of their control/losing control of themselves is based around their actions, words, habit instead of things that are truly from the core/completely out of control.
Scorpio brings about the deeper level of intensity/passion within them which may be scary at first, but the Capricorn has to realize that they are the only sign out there that can handle such a turbulence and master it with control – the Scorpio wouldn’t have let them in this deep or led them astray, even if it seems frightening or scary.
Mostly because they intuitively know that the Capricorn would handle well even if the Capricorn doubts themselves. It’s a question of trust– unconditionally, and a reliance on each other not to led them to their destruction.
The Scorpio trusts in the Capricorn’s power, the Capricorn has to let go of their self-preserverance for this to happen as well (only just a little– the Scorpio isn’t asking for much).
Being connected or finally getting a glimpse/understanding of the subconscious level is like the Scorpio letting the Capricorn ‘feel’ for the first time who they are/their inner core (the Scorpio– how they are.)
That’s the utmost level of trust and intimacy anyone could give, it’s showing all the ugly cycles they go through and the Capricorn can feel, judge within their own selves what the Scorpio goes through.
It’s not a ‘let me show you how I feel’ kind of thing. It’s a ‘let me show you what I go through all the time’ understanding there instead.
I imagine it being sort of like the Capricorn being blindfolded, and being led by the Scorpio to the beach. At the first touch of cold water the Capricorn recoils, unsure of how it’s going to go and whether the Scorpio’s going to drown them or not (practical, suspicious but also critical)
The Scorpio insists on just a little bit of trust, and if the Capricorn relents (even if all their conscious-level sense are screaming at them that there’s no possible way does wouldn’t end in murder)
They both dove under the water, and for the first time– the Capricorn see/feels the same waves, the same current, the same tumultuous things happening in the sea with the Scorpio.
But their experiences are inherently different, because they’re not the same people. They might be affected by the same sea over their heads, but the breath they took, their experience inside their own head, their feelings/emotions and thoughts are all different.
This is what it means by the subconscious level, and where the passion flows from.
Once they comes back up for air– it’s Capricorn’s territory again and they connect at a conscious/surface level.
The connection between the two of them runs deep between the two levels, and that’s what builds the foundation/passion up for their relationship as well.
Another thing to note is their air placements. With the Capricorn person’s Libra Moon– don’t doubt yourself so much.
You’re much better than that, although it can be hard to not second guess your own feelings sometimes you’re de-touring the rest of yourself hard, and it’s going to make you more frustrated with yourself if you keep this cycle going.
A way to help with this is to pin-point your immediate initial reaction and just go with it. (Think Aries)
It might feel like you’re forcing yourself not to think so much about something that you should be thinking about/you’re going to make a mistake and regret it because you could’ve prevent it – learn to go by your instincts rather than your thoughts/head.
Most things tends to turn out for the better because people work that way instead of trying to perfect something all the time.
It’s hard to do, but there’s lessons to be learnt by listening to your sister signs even if it seems like there’s no indicator/need for that.
Your Libra is overthinking a lot of things. Your connection to the guy (for example) is already appreciated because he understands your emotionality (Sun-Moon) and admires you for your courage/skills (Mars-Sun) – he already feels fulfilled by how you are/your inner core.
Utterly grateful and caring by just being validated, reflected and understood through your demonstrations alone. (Libras– this applies to you too– likes being reflected/mirrored by another person to see themselves/what they can do –clearer. Just you acknowledging this, even if it’s unintentional, is already seen as a blessing/happiness to him)
You don’t have to prove anything by overthinking, you’re only hurting yourself more if you can’t use it in moderation. So please keep that in mind (I don’t think you’ll overdo it anyways but this is just to warn in case it happens/with solutions for how to get out of the funk as well)
Another thing is, Libras will try to better their relationship as they go on by bringing out weak points for both of them to work on.
The uncertainty here lies within both of you guy’s placements, where both of you are unsure about whether you can compromise enough of yourself or if one of you will have to go the extra lengths for each other (one time is fine, but multiple time is not)
There’s nothing to be unsure about, because you’re both built from tougher/stronger stuff than that.
Scorpio/Capricorn duality can’t just be broken by Libra/Gemini/Aquarius overthinking/critical nature
It’s an important component to any relationship to adapt, listen and reflect/bounce off of each other doing their own part in order to make the communal situation better sure (Air signs commonality)
But all of that are things you guys can moderate/decide, what the relationship is built on are 2-level connectivity/fundamental feelings for each other.
Look at the basics, the fundamental feelings/emotional connectivity is there. What’s hindering it, is something you can control and moderate yourself.
Whether you’re concern about the longevity, everyday communication or not communicating/misunderstanding each other is something you can get through. Because it’s not what your relationship is built on, it’s like looking at a building and thinking it has too many window panes/not enough– getting rid of some window panes/adding more isn’t going to make the entire building collapse.
Sometimes it’s just hard to get out of our own heads or concerns when it’s a ‘glaring/obvious’ problem because it doesn’t follow traditional rule/method. Don’t be afraid to adjust it according to what feels right to you guys.
Conventionality is just a construct that we feel pressured to abide by for the sake of societal harmony (especially with Libra/Aquarius) but don’t be afraid to really embrace your illogical side as well.
A relationship doesn’t have to mean compromising to make it good for both of you, you both deserve to be fully yourself in the relationship.
Take it as a collaborative project for both of your gain– don’t compromise but add on to each other instead.
If it’s a question of time or hobbies that’s conflicting with each other– encourage, add on and put support into the relationship’s narrative rather than try to tear each other down/making ‘adjustments’ known to each other.
Communication doesn’t have to be conventional, you don’t have to find ‘solutions’ when you can ‘collaborate’ instead.
If it’s something like one of you feeling hurt/feeling bad about something the other person did– yeah, talk about it. But remember that you’re adding onto the ‘relationship’s narrative’.
Imagine it from this point of view, if he keeps bringing up things you’ve done to hurt him and asking you to adjust– then you’re ultimately going to feel like the relationship narrative is just a collection of you making it up to him/adjusting to him all the time.
There’s all these things that kept building up on your experience together, so making sure you keep it clean of these things, finding better communication or ‘attitude’ to have together and thinking of the relationship as a ‘conscious child’ between the two of you sometimes is also possibly a good thing.
Being conscious of the overall picture and better solution is important, so make sure to think big as well! 💕
There’s a few things I didn’t touch on like how her/his Libra-Gemini Moon being trine (easier time understanding each other’s emotions/non-verbal but still communicative understanding of each other’s subconscious)
Aquarius-Scorpio Venus (deep yet expansive view of connecting the internal with the external, socially an engaging couple to be around with a lot of warmth for each other that radiates outwards and put others in a good mood as well/especially from the girl)
As well as just the overall shared Venus (harmonious) aspect connecting the guy’s Mars/Pluto (Scorpio/energy) and your friend’s Saturn (Capricorn/Aquarius- self-discipline/guidelines) together.
I hope this helps your friend a little!💕 Good luck with everything!!! 💕💕 I’m cheering you on (and pls tell me if it helps) 💕
