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Relax, Hal. Have a seat.
(Green Lantern: Emerald Dawn II #1)
going alone with my case worker for the first time today!! I'm so nervous... i legit just met this guy Friday for the first time.... WTF ARE WE GOING TO DO?
I hate that so many older people look at bullying as some sort ofĀ āright of passageā as if everyone has been raised in a home where their older siblings roughed them up to teach them how to fight. Or as if every childs parents taught them to defend and speak up for themselves. Regardless itās wrong and nobody is looking after these kids, they put up aĀ āno bully zoneā sign outside like that does something and it doesnāt. As someone who has experienced bullying and witnessed bullying in the classroom, it is EXTREMELY rare to see any kind of school staff actually speak up for the child and stop it. No principle, no teacher, no janitor, no vice principle, none.Ā We need to protect these kids more cuz too many people are lacking.Ā
Social Working 101 - Youth Work is Always Political.
Iām deeplyĀ convinced that my work as a social worker is as political as it can get. Yes, I work for the GermanĀ country, and I have to follow some rules; comes with the territory. But I also think, that our job is the one point to really make a difference for young people.Ā
1. You as a social worker are usually the first oneĀ who really cares about these people. OftenĀ their parents are rubbish and the police and the state donāt care either. There is no lobby for the interest ofĀ precarious teenagers.
2. Except you, of course. So letās take this seriously.Ā
3. You have to care about stuff like, racist shit that is happening on aĀ daily basis to them. Or other discriminatory behavior that they are surrounded by. Maybe from teachers, parents, police, society, advertising, during the job search or in romantic relationships.Ā
4. Make sure that they know that you are on their side. Stand behind them. Believe them.
5. If nobody tells you, that itās not okay, what's happening to you, how should you learn to be an assertive, resistive, loud and independent person? Without anyone on your side, itās hard. So letās be on their side.
6. And that is fucking political. Itās political to stand up to your coworker who reproducesĀ racistĀ shit. If you hear a parent say homophobic stuff and youĀ interfere.Ā Itās political to go to your majorsā office and tell them if they close the youth center, or the skate park, or the $randomplacetheyliketohangout that the office isĀ metaphorically going to burn.
Be the one grown up, you would have loved on your side as a teenager. Take them seriously. They are the experts on their own life - learn to listen to them.Ā
Foster care case work is a lot of things. Itās not knowing what youāre doing, ever, but providing what you can for your kids and families. Itās driving two hours to see your kiddos who were psychiatrically hospitalized due to suicidal thoughts because of their past on your paid day off. Itās the court systems not listening to you and criticizing your work when they donāt really know what it all entails. Itās working with behavioral kids on a personal level and getting frustrated as if their your own. Itās getting more cases when youāre not even remotely ready for them. Itās realizing how terrible the system can be and still doing what you have to. Itās losing good workers because of bad management and picking up the slack for bad workers.
Itās also providing permanency, safety, support, love, and guidance for not only kids, but families, that didnāt have it before the system stepped in. Itās the kids who had a bad life thank you for saving them. Itās hugs for comfort, thankfulness, or just joy. Itās reuniting families and rejoicing for parents who fought so hard against their inner demons.
Itās almost never easy and I think I have more bad days than good, but the good ones have SUCH good that they keep me going through the bad.
Compassion fatigue feels like my heart is dry heaving.
Single mother Gwen AU
Ā in this AU David is Maxās Caseworker and hes struggling to find a good family to put him, David has been max caseworker for 3 years which is probably the longest Davids gone without finding a child a good home. Over the years hes developed a fondness for max. Which is problematic because David cant just focus on Max he has other kids he need to help.
Ā Max cant live with David because hes his caseworker but he was lucky enough to convince Gwen to to be his temporary foster parent just until he can find a better home for him.
IN this AU Gwen was a psychiatrist but lost her practice now shes bouncing form job to job. occasionally Gwen helps out David when shes tight for cash and take in one of his foster kids. Gwen takes in Max as a favor to David so he can work on his other cases and not have to worryĀ about Maxs well beingĀ
Writing Update 2/6/18
Iām going to try to do this every Monday when I usually write my goals, but yesterday ended up being a wonky day and I never got to writing stuff. In part because of some ptsd issues, and in part because of a migraine. Ugh. Anywho, Iām functioning at the moment so hereās the update ;)Ā
Last Weekās Goals:Ā
1. Butt in chair writing 5 days or more: I made it five days this week. I knew my streak of doing seven days in a week was gonna end at some point XD 2. Short Stories: Complete and post at least one of the active stories. Finish initial drafts on the other two. Yeah, this didnāt happen. I did write two pages of notes for another idea though >_> Oops. 3. The Quake: Fix the end of pt. 7, write pt. 8 I needed to talk to my brother to figure out one bit, but once that was done I got both of these done, and even made a few notes for the next two scenes! 4. Life stuff: Make some progress on the list every day. Eh, kinda? But the days I didnāt were because some of the previous days kiiiinda broke me so I needed to rest and recover. Which is important too so Iāll take it.
This Weekās Goals: 1. Butt in chair writing 5 days or more: (can you tell this is a constant goal?) 2. Short Stories: Complete and post at least one of the active stories. Finish initial drafts on the other two. 3. The Quake: write pt. 9 and pt. 10 4. Life stuff: Get desk ready for my brother to work on, catch up money stuff, and meet with a case worker on Thursday for help with some paperwork stuff (eeeek!) Iām really nervous about the case worker thing. I guess sheās a social worker type person, and the goal is to get help with some of the stuff I need to get done and take the stress off. But the initial meeting is freaking me out. Loverly. I canāt decide if Iām more scared it wonāt end up helping at all or overwhelmed that it will and that will mean yet more changes in my life.Ā Alrighty. Enough about me. What are your goals right now?Ā