Answers about cat dream trauma
rdprice29 replied to your post “I had a crazy dream last night that for some reason I had reconciled...”
SAM! Whatever you ate or drank last night, don't do that again. What a horrible, horrible nightmare! I'm assuming they are, since you got them from the pound and it seems like common policy now, but are the cryptids micro-chipped? Because if not, tell me how much it would be to get them so and I will paypal the $ to you. So much more peace of mind that you can be identified if they do get out. I'm practically crying just thinking about them getting lost like that!
Oh yes -- chipped and registered, and the reason I make them wear collars is so that people will know they belong to someone if they get out but stay in the building. The Anti-Cruelty Society won’t put cats up for adoption until they’re spayed/neutered, first-vaccinated, and chipped, so it’s not even an option, which I approve of. Even if you don’t change their chip paperwork to reflect your name and address, if they get out and the vet finds them, the Anti-Cruelty Society has a record and can get in touch. But it was like the first thing I did when I adopted them.
catlinyemaker replied to your post “I had a crazy dream last night that for some reason I had reconciled...”
I have those sorts of dreams all the time, both dreams about corraling cats (or finding them [alive! my brain's not _that_ horrible] after I've apparently forgotten about them for weeks, that's a charming variant) and dreams about getting stymied trying to get back to someone or something. Very upsetting, especially when it's about cats who have passed. I'm glad your brain decided to give you a win in court after that!
After our dog died when I was in my 20s, I would sometimes have dreams that it turned out he hadn’t died, we just thought he had, and so we hadn’t fed him or given him water for several weeks. Like you, he was somehow still alive, but man that’s traumatic, isn’t it?
junker5 replied to your post “I had a crazy dream last night that for some reason I had reconciled...”
The fact that you can recall your dreams so vividly has got to be one of the many reasons you are such a fantastic writer. Poor Sam. The cryptids escaping is a real fear any inside pet owner has...I have to count noses before I go out the door, and slide out as quickly as possible. I'm super paranoid in the summer, because they like to sit and look out the stormdoor while I'm in the backyard. I'm sorry you are unsettled. Big changes, new job & all...sending hugs!
Yeah, in a weird way the “be good” ritual in the morning has calmed me down because they never try to dart out the door after I’ve told them to be good, but I’m always cautious when coming in with a suitcase or large package. Deebs got out once while I was maneuvering my suitcase through the door. She only made it about five feet before freaking out and running back inside, but they still look speculatively at the door sometimes :D
kungfunurse replied to your post “I had a crazy dream last night that for some reason I had reconciled...”
That’s weird - I have recurring dreams of my cats getting out and I have to find them and get them safely back inside. For me it usually comes down to feeling out of control in some part of my life, and trying to keep the things important to me safe and where I put my hands on them. Whatever it means for you, I hope you have an awesome day and a lovely upcoming turkey day.
I don’t think it was about control so much as anxiety, although anxiety is related to control, so who knows. It could just be that things are going relatively well for me right now and while I’m not consciously waiting for the other shoe to drop, maybe unconsciously I am.
ameliahcrowley replied to your post “I had a crazy dream last night that for some reason I had reconciled...”
This feels an awful lot like as though your nightmares were being written by the ghosts of Gilbert and Sullivan (played, in my mind, by Stastler and Waldorf in their Marley Brothers costumes) last night.
LOL, my antipathy to Gilbert and Sullivan does sort of make sense in that light :D














