Hey there! I think your blog is wonderful!! Thank you for all the tips and motivational stuff on here. I was just wondering, do you have any tips for cheek biting? Because it’s one of the least represented BFRBs and the only thing I can find is chewing gum (which I can’t do as it gives me headaches)? Goes it doesn’t use my hands so fidget toys don’t really make a difference, Again thank you for keeping this blog 😁😁
Hi anon! Thanks for your ask today. Recently I’ve been much more aware of the way that I, and other people with BFRB’s treat eating compulsions. I’m planning a post about coping mechanisms for eating compulsions in the future, so definitely stay tuned for a long post about about that very soon. It’ll have a lot more detail than I’m probably going to be able to give on this post.
I totally feel you on the chewing gum giving you headaches, that’s never worked for me either. Something that I find useful with managing all of my particular BFRB’s, is substitution.
With eating compulsions specifically, I’m not convinced that eating gum is similar enough to the sensation to provide the right stimulation (altho what doesnt work for me can still work for someone else!)
For managing my eating compulsions, I find that eating small pieces of shaved coconut is really helpful, because the sensation is very similar to biting small bits of skin from my nails. This could be worth trying out if the sensation is similar enough!
Along with that, there are specific stim toys that are designed to be chewed, such as chewellery (jewellery designed to be chewed). With cheek biting specifically I’d look for something that’s able to fit into the back of the mouth to chew with your molars, as lots of chewellery is designed to be chewed with the front of the mouth.
Particularly with cheek biting, eating something like pastry can help as it can stimulate that same “peel away” feeling.
At the moment, these are the two things that I use to manage my eating compulsions, but as I said, I’m planning a post in the future about how to deal with eating BFRBs. If any of my followers have any ideas, please add your recommendations on this post!
I hope you found this useful!