#cis males

[nickim93]

Sigh this straight male had the nerve to say “If you don’t have sex with your male friend/boyfriend/husband even when you don’t want it, you’re punishing him and controlling him and his urges.”

GOOD THEN, I WANT TO PUNISH HIM.....I WILL PUNISH THE FUCK OUT OF HIM FOR BEING RAPEY TOWARDS ME... 

YOU SHALL SUFFER!!! 

[ouijadere-blog]

This blog is here for cishet men as well. I can't find many blogs that do positivity for completely straight, completely cis men anymore, I don't know why. Cis, straight, white men are allowed here. Why? Because cishet white men cant control their sexuality, gender, or race JUST LIKE LGBT AND POC CANT CONTROL THEIRS this has been a psa

[gotrightbackuplikeviagra]

So..

I had a breakdown at work last night over my ex in a stall in the bathroom after fighting with her on the side of the diner outside after i caught her going to meet up with the kitchen manager who i found out she was fucking throughout our whole relationship whom i also decided to approach and she tried to make me look like the crazy one. SHE cheated on ME. I was helping her raise her child. We broke up supposedly so she could go back to her baby daddy. Meanwhile she is fucking the kitchen manager who is also married with two children. I mean WTF. then after i got out of work i relapsed on alcohol klonopin and bud and couldn’t drive home. I’m all types of fucked up.

[bpddaddio]

ALL STRAIGHT CIS MEN NEED TO STOP CALLING WOMEN OR FEMALE BODIED PEOPLE “VICTIMS” IN ARGUMENTS. All people should really stop throwing out the sentence, “You’re playing the victim card.” When an argument or a conversation isn’t going their way. Just because someone is trying to explain how they feel or how you are making them feel, doesn’t mean they are playing the victim. Just because you’re mad that by them telling you more details about their lives to try to get you to understand their views makes you feel like an asshole doesn’t mean you get to project that on others. You wanna act all high and mighty? You wanna put someone in a position where they are being victimized and then yell at them for behaving in such manner? Alright, good for you. I hope you feel good about yourself for being a predator. Because that’s what you are. You break people down until their vulnerable and then use their own vulnerability against them to make them feel crazy. Grow up! Learn a better argument piece then “stop playing a victim” just because you’re feeling guilty about the vile shit that spewed out of your mouth.

[zen-the-rainbow-zebra]

So my partner and I were waiting to cross at a light. And than as it went to walk signal for us some guy in a car looked like he was going to go forward and than stopped. I yelled to him and his buddy "you're really bad at pulling out aren't you"

I know they heard me. They looked right at me. I spent a good 5 mins laughing at my own joke lol.

[khalix-hyetology]

The ability for males to use the term “friendzone” is a privilege. Cis males believing they are “valuable enough” to be more than a friend by default is something women all around do not possess. A male getting rejected is considered an aberration in that hegemony. A female getting rejected for not fitting an ideal image is considered a norm. “Friendzone” is proof of male privilege that exists in many mainstream societies. 

[trans-matters]

Is anyone else ever intimidated by other cisgender males? I find it extremely uncomfortable to be around them because I am suddenly extremely worried about everything from how flat my chest is to if im sitting manly enough. Its especially bad if they don't know I am transgender because I feel the need to prove I am a man without having to tell them.

I know it can be intimidating to be around cisgender males and you may be super concerned about how flat your chest is and if you are being manly enough but remember most of the time those guys aren’t even thinking about you. Why? Because you are just another dude and sometimes not all dudes have flat chests. Pecks come in all shapes and sizes and if some dude is questioning you about how flat your chest is and getting in your face about it I would remove yourself from that situation and not speak to that individual again. That’s not okay, that isn’t a friend and that’s aggressive, transphobic behavior. 

It’s hard when you are a tiny guy and you sometimes have these 6′3 cis gender guys who can be pretty jacked and intimating but remember just take a breathe. You don’t need to prove anything to them. In fact I would say that would be the biggest thing to not do. You owe cis males nothing, you owe them not jack shit and you don’t have to prove your masculinity. 

I have lived with many cis gendered dudes from the ages of 21-45 and not one of them ever wanted me to prove my masculinity. They taught me about masculinity and frankly I saw a lot of wonderful feminine sides to them that I don’t think a lot of people experience.

Cis men can be just as vulnerable and self conscious as you even if you don’t see it.

Be yourself, be the awesome guy you are.

Kyle

[vambieglomp]

TFW when your partner is working at Walmart and getting hit on by every cis male coworkers and customers.