This one is for trans people who have found understanding, healing, self-discovery, or realization in or because of a relationship with a cis person. Every trans journey is different and gender can be very mixed up with our relationships. I hope the cis partners you've had have been supportive or at least learned to be supportive.
This is all the trans people who have had gender euphoria or dealt with internalized transphobia together with a cis partner. Every trans experience is different, and while no trans person needs to date a cis person to validate their gender or be their true gender, you don't need to date another trans person either. Relationships can be burdens, gifts, and/or journeys and this can be especially true when you're transgender.






