#cishets

[ibyt3]

If someone who’s cisgender and hetero is called a cishet then what do you call someone who’s trans and homosexual transhomo ?

[hislittleraincloud]

How would you feel if Wenclair will actually become canon?

If romantic Wenclair became canon, I would feel like Millar & Gough caved and capitulated, allowing their vision for the non-romantic sister/friendship of Wenclair to be influenced by fans, and that artists/creatives are no longer allowed to create something without being severely pressured by a whacky minority of fans.

Because while romantic Wenclair makes up a big chunk of online fandom, it's not the majority of viewers, which are who the very straight M&G are writing for. These are the creators (AND some crew!) of fucking Smallville, FFS. These guys aren't looking to tell our stories (which is another thing that irritates me...why are we even looking to straight cismales like M&G and Burton to tell any of our stories?) and the people in charge are still awkward as fuck around the issues that surround 🏳️‍🌈 and 🏳️‍⚧️ issues.

Creatively, I'd probably ignore it. I'm already going to ignore Wednesday 2's storyline because Afterburn has a specific story written over several years in the future and includes the character of Xavier Thorpe. Wednesday 1 canon is the only thing I'll be using.

But honestly, all them bitches will become a million times even more insufferable, like spoiled kids who keep screaming until they get what they want. It shouldn't work that way, because when you force people to go off their scripts (especially awkward cismale writers like them 💀 and the women who help write their cisstories), that force will show. It will be obvious, especially to the unsuspecting masses who aren't looking for that in an unserious tweenie teen show like this one.

I have a couple of people expecting me to have Xavier get together with Wednesday if she fucks Donovan to death Donovan keels over on her, but that's not in the AB Bible either (a very strong Wenclairish sisterhood is, however) and I'm not seeing a path towards it given what ABW's life trajectory is. I'm different though, I'm fan fiction, and I can literally do anything, I can wish fulfill if I wanted to...but I don't want to. I want to tell the story/my story/the story of Wednesday and Donovan, and I'm gathering from everything that Millar and Gough have said about it even in the face of romantic Wenclair, they want to tell their story of Wednesday and Enid's friendship.

Maybe yanno...just let the creatives do what they're gonna do? Netflix's Wednesday was not meant to focus on or even hint at queer representation. Wednesday Addams's queer rep is allegorical, not literal.

ETA: Politically it would be a disaster and make things worse for us as well, because the right wing will be able to use it as an example of how the "gays are pushing their agenda" on kids/entertainment/etc. Fact: There never has been a gay agenda that's been pushed anywhere on anyone. That's been a fabrication of the right wing for decades. But this? This would be [yet another, the first one being the Wenclair response to the novelization] a gift to the right wing because it'd be true: By successfully pressuring a media entity to make a primary IP character who's been straight up until then to be gay, the 🏳️‍🌈 will have successfully pushed the writers into changing their story. I really wish the fucking left would stop giving the right gifts to trample us with. We made so much goddamn progress but then started getting ripped backwards. I'm not sure humans even know how to behave towards one another anymore, in terms of sex and sexuality.

[neuroqueercrafting]

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Sometimes the only way to deal with neurotypical or cishet nonsense is to laugh it off. Here's a dry-erase magnet to keep track of how long the neurotypicals / cishets manage to behave themselves — and to dramatically record when they lose their streak.

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ID: white rectangular dry erase magnets reading “it’s been (blank) days since the last cishet / cis / neurotypical nonsense.” Another reads “cishets confused this week”

[kajaono]

The amount of boyfriends who are actually just personal photographers of their girlfriends… always confuses me

[sleepydross]

i dont want to be mean. i really generally dont. im angry, sure, and hurting, sure, and have been harmed and am still being harmed... but im so tired of being mean. ill be mean to cishets who want to talk shit ig, they deserve it and i dont care if they dont like that, but elsewise.

idk i dont wanna be mean or snarky. i dont even wanna be clever to the cishets in question, ig. id probably just say 'eat shit your opinion is of negative value and your existence is actively harmful' and just move on.

like yeah thats mean, but its boilerplate. its no effort. and i dont waste kindness on garbo that wants me dead, you feel me?

it doesnt matter what the fuckin trash says in response, or what they say to prompt it. there's no debate to be had, and i dont wanna be mean, i just. like they literally have *zero* value to me. youre either with us, with marginalized people, or you are actively against us. theres no middle ground and like, im tired of pretending there is.

anyway, idk where this came from, was just in my head.

[twinkdrama]

girls girls girls your bar is set too low for men. your standards are in hell. you deserve better lol

[category-five-autism-event]

The only straight I am is straight up not having a good time