Hot Take: You’re allowed to kin / identify with characters that have nothing in common because you’re not a single trope, you’re an entire being with multiple aspects, life factors, flaws, beauty, and swag.
If you wanna kin a tired, scruffy, private eye who’s got nothing to live for other than booze, books, and his pet cat he adopted that’s immortal, and the very next second you tell me you also kin the cutesy, pin up girl who’s happy-go-lucky, always wants everyone happy, and is made of literal cotton candy,