#commitment fears

[soulmates-twinflames]

Has Your Boyfriend Been Hurt Before? -

If your boyfriend has been hurt in past relationships and not resolved those issues he needs to address them so your relationship stands a chance.

[soulmates-twinflames]

Cookie Jar Relationships -

Cookie jar relationships have been called a new dating trend, but in fact it is just a new name for behavior that has been going on for a long time.

[theredflagman]

If you can’t figure out where you stand with someone, it might be time to stop standing and start walking.

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[theredflagman]

Welcome to RED FLAG MAN

Welcome to RED FLAG MAN, where I will teach you how to avoid dating the wrong people (and the subsequent heartbreak), based on my research and experience.

My name is Brenda and I am a former international model and published writer. After growing up in New Jersey, I went on to travel the world, living and working in such places like Tokyo and Paris. As my world expanded, I was exposed to many cultures, and many types of people-- but one thing I learned is that there are consistent patterns in relationships, there are consistent warning signs in toxic relationships. I like call these “Red Flags”. We need to take these very seriously, for they can foretell the end of the story before it has even begun.

These days I live between Miami and New York, working as a realtor while putting the finishing touches on my book “Red Flag Man” which delves into the topic of this blog in great detail.

Follow me if you like what you see, and don’t hesitate to /ask me any relationship questions you may have.

Good luck out there!

-BJR

[joitotheworldstuff]

Types of Commitment Phobia: Understanding Relationship Fears

Types of Commitment Phobia: Understanding Relationship fears In relationships, commitment is often seen as a significant milestone. However, some individuals experience a deep-rooted fear of commitment known as commitment phobia. This fear can manifest in various ways and can significantly impact their ability to engage in long-term, committed relationships. In this blog post, we will explore…

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[writemesolitary]

Confession: 1:38am

fuck. fuck. fuck. fuck. fuck. FUCK FUCK FUCK!!! What have I done?

[oanatinus-blog]

oh boy

has it really only been four weeks? i say this because my main dilemma, aside from continuously hearing my phone go off when it doesn't (i forget what that's called but it has a name), is that i really should have brought up exclusivity because thinking about bringing it up now is so much worse.

and i'm doing less shit with other people.

i mean, i say i like the girl, and that's kind of true, but we're good as friends, we've kinda stopped doing shit especially since she knows someone else exists now, and she has issues i really haven't seen ((BIG NOTE HERE if i were to pursue something with her i would try my damndest to help her and me deal with all of her issues in a heartbeat, whether i could or not is another story entirely but there's no question in whether i would try or not - i would))... but from what i've seen of the boy he's got issues i can deal with.  sadly my limit of what i can deal with is lower since i have so much mental crap of my own.

on the plus side, at least i haven't ended up in rehab yet.  and no one goes just for pot.  oh man, having so much extra spending money is bad.

when i go back to school, and i will because i actually want to, but i don't want to look into shit until next week, because i just need a breather lol, and i want to wait a bit to see what happens with this me and this boy shit.... so maybe it won't be in september but i'll still go.... in the meantime, resume and job hunting, oh my, barf.

where was i going with that

oh yes

with restrictive spending in school, i will automatically smoke less weed.  which works because i'll be busy doing schoolwork and filling my spare time with the boy.

and my ladyparts.

sorry, i just felt like being dirty there.

i should go to bed but after the revelation of school far away being an impossibility, i actually think i may read some cards.  why not, i'm already exhausted.

as for not seeming to be able to talk about things with the boy... i'm just terrified he'll leave.  i'm making things worse.  but at the same time, i'm - on my own, with no extra pressure from him being mad or whatever - just kind of drifting into a place that i think he would be okay with anyway.  like for example, if me doing things with other people is cheating even though we never discussed being exclusive or really being an official couple... but yeah i'm still a douchebag whatever way i look at it.... it doesn't matter because i'm not doing anything with anyone else.

but that's not what matters to me anyway.

what matters to me is that i don't want to do anything with anyone else.

he's all i feel i need.