Jul 8, 2024
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"Allowing" bodily autonomy to loved ones. TikvaWolf.com text reads: Framing it as being "allowed" to be romantic with multiple people weirds me out. (image of person handing Kim a ticket that says "POLYAMORY PASS: expires when I stop having fun"). Because if anyone feels the degree of entitlement over MY mind, body, and heart to think it's their business what I'm doing apart from them... that is absolutely not someone I want to be romantic with in the first place. (image of angry dude shouting: "You did WHAT without me??"). So for me, it's not so much that I even care about having multiple relationships at once. I just want to feel safe and respected in whichever ones I'm in. I'm only into 24/7 Dom situations when there's a safety word. And when there's NOT, I use one anyway and GTFO. (Aspiring Dom): "First you need my PERMISSION" (Kim): "Shpadoinkel"
Always make sure that you discuss any problem that is troubling you with your partner, even if it is only a minor concern. This will ensure that the communication channels always remain open between you.
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I don't want someone I deserve, that saying that "you deserve someone better" that is bullshit! I want someone who'll do everything to deserves me, even if the whole world think I don't deserve them. I want the person I love to love me back, be with me and that's all.
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'One secret,' she said. 'I will allow you the one. But no more. Ever. Not after this.'
Mary Balogh, from Thief of Dreams
