high school is temporary. you don’t have to meet any of the people ever again once you leave. you can literally just block everyone, move countries and start a new life. so why do you care about a few lame basic people’s opinions? yes school can be a scary place where it feels like people judge you but you don’t have to go into their business? it’s not like someone’s asking you to like go into THEIR life and do something scary? like it’s not even about them so idk why they are centred in your mind.
LIVE your life. you don’t need to hurt people to live your life. you just need to do things that make you happy. do things for your future self. imagine you’re 60? you’re gonna miss these young days when you could do so much!
make the memories to laugh about later. make the memories to share with your children. make the memories so that when you’re old you don’t regret anything because you know that you did what you could to live your life.
of course the fear of being judged and not accepted when you’re a teenager is normal and part of this wonderful, beautiful experience. but as much as you fear it, try to have fun anyways and don’t let it stop you from having fun💗🧁🪩
do what you want and don't be afraid to do it alone. if no one else wants to go with you somewhere, or do something with you, learn to have that ability to do it alone. and obviously i don't mean illegal or bad stuff, but i mean if you've been meaning to try out a new activity but no one else seems interested, go do it on your own! when you start doing this it'll show people that whether they join you or not, you will still go and do things that make you happy.
say no. just say no. its not that scary once you start saying it often. you don't wanna do something? say no. you don't wanna give something? say no. you don't need to have a reason.
get a life outside of them or get a life outside of whats draining you. when your whole life is primarily centred around maybe a toxic friend, a job that drains you, something that makes you feel very anxious, then of course you'd be on survival mode 24/7. because all you're thinking and stressing about is that thing. so instead maybe after a long day of school or work, go home and do something you love. because remember, your life doesnt stop after school/ work okay?? you can go and actually DO STUFF to take your mind off things. you don't even need to go out of your house, you could have a cozy night in with yummy food and your fav movie, pick up a hobby or if you do wanna go outside your house, meet up with some friends, learn a sport, join a club, go paragliding or something- anything that makes you feel happy!!
refuse embarrassment. because you can. because torturing yourself over what happened in the past is doing you absolutely no good right now. just learn and move onnn- LEARN AND MOVE ON! if learning takes time, so be it but make sure that you're focussing on learning, on why you did that, and not beating yourself up for making a mistake. and also because when you show people you're not embarrassed about something, they'll realise that they cannot hold that over your head. now you have the power.
when you say you're gonna do something, DO IT. don't be all talk and no walk, people will lose respect and trust in you. don't say anything unless you are confident that you will actually do it. "do what you say but do not say what you do"- keep up to your promises you've made to others & yourself, but also keep private. what people don't know, they can't ruin.
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be who you are and be proud of it. stop being embarrassed of who you are. be whoever the fuck you wanna beeeee 💕
ive seen people with "niche" interests, funky cool clothing, who read classics who like themselves more for this, or who believe that that makes them better than all the other "basic" girls out there. i've seen those same "basic" girls with the white tank tops and "basic" stereotypically girly interests like shopping and starbucks and who go out to the beach with their friends and have pool parties and be popular with boys be very happy and pleased with their life and who they are. and i've envied both.
i've envied the girl who doesnt care what she wears and will go out dressed like adam sandler and see it as a 'cool girl' thing, and i've envied the girl who loves curating outfits down to the details with cool rings and accessories and see that as ultimate cool girl as well.
I've envied both and ive wanted to be like both which baffled me- how could i want to be 2 different complete opposite things and find both sides of that cool?
i realised then that what i actually envied wasn't what they liked or found cool, or how they dressed. but it was actually that these people that i met with these qualities, were happy and secure about it. they wanted to be that way and they chose it for themselves. its what makes them happier. they've decided for themselves what they thought was cool and chose to be that way even though their idea of 'cool' may not have been the same to another person's its the fact that they didnt care and they still chose to be who they are which was so, very, cool to me.
i do hope i'm articulating this well. what im trying to say is: be who you want to be, what you think is cool, and be it fully to the max. no doubts, no thinking about what others think is cool, YOUR opinion is the only one that matters in your life.
whatever you do, own it. if its embarrassing, own it. if its weird or cringy, own it. own what you did without being embarrassed then just pump out some more embarrassing things. you'll get over it and realise its not the end of the world! anything you do is only ever embarrassing if YOU act embarrassing by it. you can choose to simply dismiss it and not give it any attention or laugh about it with your friends. instead of embarrassing, call it funny. a great funny story to tell for the future.
heyyy girls! so i know i havent been online in a WHILE buuutttt here i am now! ⭐️ summer is HERE which means sun beach swim on REPEAT! my obsession and inspo for this summer is gonna be ZARA LARSSON 🐬🌈✨💗🌊☀️ i love her music and her overall vibe & aura soooo much shes so cool so heres my summer blueprint to a Zara Larsson summer 😝💕
sosososo lettts begin! in this wee little blog post i will be covering zara larsson coded outfits, accessorising, and summer activities! 😄
styling like zara larsson - outfits!
so it is VERY obvious that zara loves colours. her outfits always have a wide range of bright and vibrant colours, bold, neon, catching your attention. dont be afraid to mix and match different colours, have FUN with it!!!
layering different colours, materials, textures
find tops with sequence, sparkles & glitter, fun/tropical/playful prints like flowers, palm trees, even tops with just lots of colours and shapes in different sizes
very beachy, summer coded. have fun with the types and colours of clothing !!!!!
as for JEWELLERY, find bold, neon, takes up SPACE! go big or go home !!!
also for swimmers, wear ofc whatever makes you feel comfortable. bikinis, takinis, full body. if u wanna be super zara larsson bikinis/ tankinis with bright colours like pink and yellow are perfect.
TOPS; remember - the more bedazzled, the better
anything colourful and bright
tank tops
rhinestone graphic tanks (you could bedazzle them YOURSELF!)
bikini tops/ bra tops
baby tees
ponchos
asymmetrical tops
halter tops
scarf tops (literally wearing scarfs as tops)
BOTTOMS;
capri jeans
rhinestone jeans
low rise jeans
flowy skirts
micro shorts
SHOES
boots
bedazzled/ metallic heels
kitten heels
platform sandals/ flip flops - even bedazzle your flip flops if u want!
ballet flats
chunky sneakers - with BOLD colours ofc
sparkly mules
styling like zara larsson: makeup & accessorising!
MAKEUP
firstly, as of makeup, zara larsson's make up as you can obviously see, is divine. i am so in love with each and every one of her make up looks. especially her blue one she looks like an absolute SNOW QUEEN in it im obsessed.
brightly coloured eyeshadow is a must, and dont just remain on the eyelid, explore on the sides of the eyes and other parts of the face to get an ethereal look. + add in glitter and sparkles, OBVIOUSLY and rhinestones to be even more bedazzling!
glossy lips always! in case you cared, my favourite brand is fenty beauty by rihanna, her lipglosses are gorgeous and so nice on the lips for me <3
to be included: jewellery, accessories, belts, hair clips, etc!
as for jewellery, again, go BIG OR GO HOME! chunky, big, neons, bold.
JEWELLERY; big hoops, hanging earrings, chunky beachy necklasses, arm cuffs, colourful chokers, bracelets/ charms, even belly chains if u can with big bright colours
also the flower hairclips are suuuuuper zara larsson coded i would definitely get and use one of those. also just coloured hair clips in general to bring more pizaazz
for BELTS get anything edgy, preppy/ y2k again, with bright neon colours and bold designs
MORE;
baseball/trucker hats
sunglassesssss!!! a MUST.
shoulder bags - if sparkley/ sequenced even better
nails!! 💅 shimmer, colours like orange, yellow, pink, bright greens and blues and teals!
also sparkley waterproof glittery tattoo thingies. u can diy them 😆
⛱️ elite summer activities!
what is summer without going outside and NOT staying in your room all day because that is SO NOT what zara larsson would do. not all of these are big and event-like, some are as simple as just taking the time to give yourself a glitter tattoo! 🐬✨ this summer will be YOUR bitch if u make it. 🌊💓
go to the beach (DUHH) here are some things to do at the beach:
make sandcastles - like deadass tho
try and learn to surf
play mermaids
beach in the jar
paint rocks/ seashells
beach paintings
beach volleyballll!!!
SWIM
okay other stuff now............................
swimming
kayaking
bonfire/ camping/ hiking (if ur one of those people who like hiking)
or js go for a long walk somewhere pretty
make a short summery film
go to a playground late at night
henna & glitter tattoos
make a summer bucket list!
paint your own bikini box
do a slip n slide!
go rollerskating - maybe even BEDAZZLE ur rollerskates zara larsson style
go cycling
outdoor movie
paint your nails (zara larsson style obvi)
make friendship bracelets/ charms
and remember, even as a brown baddie you can totally zara larsson-ify the hell out of your summer 🐬xx
get it done the weird way. do it in parts. do it “wrong”. do it “late”. do it scared. it’s just better to do it differently than everyone else rather than never do it.
idk i think sometimes things may seem like a big problem in the moment but sometimes its just a temporary state of yourself which you need to be/ feel like for a while to get to a better more knowledgeable self
It turns out that you can become the person you’ve always envisioned but you’ll still have the person you were before inside of you and you have to treat them with as much forgiveness and love as possible
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