White women do NOT have power❌ .
She is only adjacent to the power source ,
White men are generally nicer than white women , as you observe , for this reason .
Power can afford to be kind and generous
If white women are with a black man , she immediately loses whatever power she may have had 🫡
👉🏾Not to mention Black men can not give her power , bc he , like white women , do not have any.
So not only does she lose white power , but is not recognized or accepted as anything in the Black community.
(You must earn your position in the black community via black community service and involvement , as I did )
So this is a double loss and fall off the hierarchy ladder for white women , unfortunately
The Black men /White women combo
They do not benefit each other , but cancels each other’s previous privileges , power , and social clout out ❌
Which is why black men eventually leave her and their children
Instead of staying , like a leader😑
Black women /white men combo
have the opposite situation.
She benefits and is elevated when she marries a white man
He is the power source and takes care of what is his .🌸
Black women are already leaders in her community, and is still accepted by other Black women , even when she marries a white man ,
Bc Black women are actually the leaders in the Black community
👉🏾Data indicates white men /black women marriages last
You are in a better position marrying a white man, than white women with black men
👉🏾Bc YOU are now beside the power source , not AWAY from it as she now is
This may cause hidden animosity. So for this reason and others I have previously written about ;
I would NOT link up with white women for any reason ❌
Instead love , take care of , and elevate your husband
You are both hard workers , so
Work as a team and become even greater together🫶🏾 .
That is the motto of my husband and I .
We love and support each other .
I advise to always do that .
