am i the only one who thinks it is kind of unfair some people completely blame ray for BOTH mews downfall and sand risking getting arrested, when he asked or forced neither to do any of this? he enabled mew but it was mews idea in the first place so blame can't be entirely put on ray and in sands case it makes even less sense, at the time they took drugs ray may not even have been aware that sand was at the party ... as far as we know he came because of nick only, i would argue going to the party and helping ray out were both choices made by sand alone
on the other hand i barely see anyone giving mew shit for involving ray, an alcohol addict in planning a party with the intention to get drunk all night (few days/weeks after telling him he won't reach 30 if he doesnt stop drinking and doing drugs)
is that more okay because ray is already fucked anyway? :)
