So I've finally opened up...
I've decided to go to a counsler to open up about everything and I'm very happy at this point in time. I've never opened up like this. I hope you guys can support me!!




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So I've finally opened up...
I've decided to go to a counsler to open up about everything and I'm very happy at this point in time. I've never opened up like this. I hope you guys can support me!!
When you are stressed about stress
I am stressed that I have stress and when I think of ways to calm my stress I think back to my fourth grade counselor. She told me to breath and i just got more stressed because I hated that counselor and they made me stressed about taking about my stress. now all I think about is ways my 10 year old self wanted to murder my counselor and I feel calmer after releasing my pent up issues by thinking of ways to not get caught for murder
I figured with all the talk I’ve been doing about Quinn coming back, I almost forgot about this other Imp cutie, Pierce, although I don’t think he’d want to be called cutie haha. I actually just got him back today, almost forgot.. Think I might try to level him up too, maybe going with a whole Imperial military comp set up.. Ahh, sometimes I feel like I think about swtor too much, then I think.. NOPE! :P
The Necessity of Connection
As humans, we have an innate need to connect with each other. We all long for being seen and understood by those close to us, to engage in mutually empathic and mutually empowering relationships. When someone goes through serious chronic disconnection with others, there could be long term and powerful consequences in their lives.
Consider a child who experienced confusion and hurt because he had a fight with his friend. He went to his parents for comfort and reassurance, but his exhausted mom who had worked a 12-hour day dismissed him to go play in his room, and his dad who was worried about paying rent this month told him to toughen up and stop worrying about things that do not matter. This child might feel that there was something wrong with him and his feelings. With repeated similar experiences, the child might feel that his actions, feelings, and thoughts lead to not connections but a confusing sense of isolation. Since he cannot change the relationships available to him, he might attempt to change himself. He starts to only want to have what he considers to be good, important feelings such as wanting to do what his parents want, in order to have any sort of connections with his parents and other people.
This relationship context that include serious or repeated disconnections will lead people to have a distorted image of relationships. These images could lead people to choose to stay out of authentic relationships by disengaging emotionally, pretending and replaying old interactions and family dynamics.
In therapy, we want to focus on building a growth-fostering connection between the counselor and the client. When the counselor can truly “be with” a client’s experience, something happens in the counselor. When the client can feel this sense of “being felt and understood”, they know that they have an impact on the counselor by expressing their authentic feelings and thoughts. If you think that your feelings are not valid and no one will ever be able to understand your inner emotional life, we as counselors want to tell you that we take all of your experiences and emotions seriously. We hope that as client come to believe that mutually empowering relationships are possible, they can begin to build new images of relationships that allow their relationships in life to become mutually emphatic and mutually powering.
Marriage counseling is a type of counseling where the counselor works in such a way to remove conflicts, making mutual understanding between the couple. To know more contact us!
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Dog Attack
Hello everyone, I would like to introduce myself. You know me as Lacie Sheldon Winters. My friends and family call me Mama Bear.
My co-workers will tell you, I am generally a happy person who will do anything to help anyone and my neighbors will tell you, I rarely complain about anything and that they trust me with the keys to their homes and the care of their families. So basically on the good…
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Dog Attack
Hello everyone, I would like to introduce myself. You know me as Lacie Sheldon Winters. My friends and family call me Mama Bear.
My co-workers will tell you, I am generally a happy person who will do anything to help anyone and my neighbors will tell you, I rarely complain about anything and that they trust me with the keys to their homes and the care of their families. So basically on the good…
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