#crazy roommate

[countbratt]

my insane flatmate keeps loitering in the kitchen whenever i’m in here and it makes me so uncomfortable because she makes any excuse to get close to me or try to talk to me. last week she tried starting a conversation on why i’m in the wrong for accusing her of being a stalker. i have an astronomical amount of evidence against her, but everyone gets mad whenever i’m upset over the things she does.

[toxictwiggie]

My roommate is fucking crazy..... she's pregnant from a hook up and is keeping it

Quit her meds cold turkey

Has been on an angry rampage and is lashing out at everyone, even our boss at work

Text me mad because my dog barks, which he's quiet most of the time and I wasn't even home at the time...

Just text at 4am my dog has been itching for over half an hour, impossible, and now she can't sleep because of him...

If I go missing, it was her

[maledictionwolf]

My living situation is rough right now. I've got a year left on my lease, but my roommate is insane, dangerous, and unpredictable. Yesterday evening he stormed upstairs to scream at me for locking the front door when he previously had screamed at another roommate for leaving the door unlocked. It escalated to physical threats and him trying to force me into a fistfight with him.

He assumes everything is malicious. In his mind, I locked the door to spite him because he was outside. In reality, I locked the door because I saw it was unlocked and thought that I had accidentally forgotten to lock it when I came in earlier.

Months ago, he nearly attacked another roommate, J, because he was convinced that J broke into the landlord's lockbox with the spare key to the crazy roommate's private bathroom, unlocked the door to the bathroom, broke back into the landlord's lockbox, put the key back, all just to fuck with him. All this insane shit he believed whole-heartedly because when he came home his bathroom was unlocked. He would rather jump to insane conclusions about malicious people out to get him than ever even consider that he might have just not locked the bathroom door properly one time. And his response to all of this was to scream at J and threaten to put him in the ER. When all that happened was he forgot to lock his own damn bathroom.

He also goes into a rage whenever he hears noises of any kind coming from upstairs. So I can't even walk from one side of my room to another without risking him storming upstairs to try and start shit. I stopped playing my instruments over a month ago because it sets him off. I've stopped being able to sing, or move about in my room. I can't even sit and read because the floor in my room is creaky and just shifting my weight can make a noise.

I've been trying to get my landlord to let me out of my lease because of this fucking lunatic I'm living with, but they're demanding police reports as proof, and are saying even with police reports they might not let me out of the lease. Even though calling the police will escalate the situation, because--unless I end up calling 911 because he's physically attacking someone or has shot at them--after the police leave I'll still be living in the same house as him, and he's already decided that I'm actively out to get him because the landlord did an inspection and told him he was violating the lease by smoking inside, which is somehow all my fault and he thinks I'm trying to get him thrown out on the street. All calling the cops will do is make him more angry, and given that he and the other 2 roommates are black there's also the very real risk that calling the cops could get any one of them killed.

I'm trying to gather evidence outside of those police reports, but the best I can do right now is one audio recording of him going off and I'm trying to get a letter from my therapist that the home I'm living in is unsafe, but I don't know how much weight that will carry.

And then there's the fact that my lease termination has to be approved between the 1st and the 14th or I'll be charged rent for the month after I leave even though the lease would have been terminated before then so it looks like I'm going to have to wait until next month to even try because I don't know if I'll be able to get the documents I need before the 15th, and even then the landlord could delay terminating the lease for a few days so I functionally have to submit evidence by the 9th or earlier... which is today and I don't have it. And delaying the termination will make it look less serious because I waited...

Oh, and since the lease termination may not even happen, I can't sign a lease for a new place yet because I don't know if I'll even be able to leave anytime in the next 12 months, and I sure as hell can't afford paying rent here and somewhere else at the same time. And it's not like I can find someone to take over my lease, because what do I tell them? That I'm moving out because one of the roommates is insane, violent, assumes everyone is malicious and out to get him, demands everyone do what he wants but will not do anything asked of him, and oh, yeah, he has a gun? How the fuck am I supposed to convince someone to live here?

I'm just so seriously fucked right now. And my finances are really tight, too, I've got a bunch of credit card debt because I had to get new tires for my car, and the exhaust pipe sheared in half abs I had to get that fixed too, and lots of medical expenses and it's just a fucking nightmare. And no support system, I'm no-contact with my family and I don't really know anyone locally... it's just really rough.

[squanchmallow]

Just found out that a girl who literally hit me with a Bible bc I had male friends has become a nurse - I worry for those kids man

[dixiedingo]

I've been trying to think about the judges reaction if my ex-roommate ever does take me to court and I can't stop laughing cause--

Me: I left under unusual circumstances on the account I felt unsafe. Especially after the ominous note she gave me

Judge: what note

Me: //reads the note

Judge:

Judge: real white girl Wednesday hours huh...

Me: white girl Wednesday...

[dixiedingo]

Gonna live blog this shit it's good content

Just packed all my shit. Just need to get it downstairs and in my car. Well, first I'll prolly take the drapes off my canopy so I can just quickly dismantle everything.

Day 2 she doesn't realize I'm leaving for good.

[dixiedingo]

My roommate is a fucking psychopath

Tw: rant below, in addition to unsavory details and what i can only describe as emotional abuse.

Its funny because people with BPD are supposed to be abusive but like.... Lol

Anyways, for context, my roommate had a guy friend! They've been friends for years and I had s crush on him in the 6 months i knew him. She knew about this and like... Was talking about letting him move in.

I didn't mind so I stopped pursuing him. But almost overnight he said he liked her romantically and she decided to, and I quote, "give him a chance."

They dated for a week before she got too intense and he cut her off (shitty move on his part).

Cue me for the next three weeks having to constantly improve her mood, talk to her, comfort her, and even convince the guy friend to at least talk to her again (i did it successfully).

And so i just got back from Thanksgiving. Over the days I was gone I was talking to my folks about moving back down but she had a fit and kept talking about how I shouldn't "make life altering decisions since I just got out the hospital." (I've been out the hospital for two weeks after a suicide plan). And that all I'm doing is running away

And so then! Then.

I come home, we have a chat, she starts crying again, I comfort her. Now granted I was high and I admit what I did next was shitty. But literally all I asked was,

"hey, would you mind if I saw him for a bit?"

A question, inoccuous. A simple question was all it took.

"get away from me."

I retreat to my room and i avoid her.

It's been only a day since then and she's

- Stolen all the towels including mine and her own so I can't shower now.

- Uninstalled the bar where I kept my towels

- She's celebrated the fact one of her declawed cats took a shit in my room (I informed her because that's a medical concern with declawed cats)

- And finally, most recently, left this for me in the door way

Originally it was a welcome message from a job i took that took two weeks.

I don't feel safe in this house anymore I'm leaving 💕

[cabombshellblondie]

I have a roommate who thinks because I'm moving out of the apartment first she gets to keep my fridge. I bought it. I'm paying it off still with $200 left on it. She put nothing towards it. I paid for it in its entirety. She doesn't understand that is not how things work, despite me telling her multiple times. I even told her before I bought it that it will remain with me wherever I go. I very explicitly told her she does not get to keep it unless she pays me the full amount I paid for it since we've only had it for a few months and I bought it brand new.