Oooh, the Farseer Trilogy for the fandom thing. I haven't read the Tawny Man trilogy yet.
The Farseer Trilogy by Robin Hobb
The first character I first fell in love with: I've just realised what a stereotypical reader I am. I fell in love with the character you're supposed to fall in love with - Fitz. I loved him from the moment he was a wee little kid, soaking in the rain and snuggling up with some dogs in a kennel.
The character I never expected to love as much as I do now: The Fool actually. It wasn't that I didn't love him when I first met him (I did, I found him intriguing and fascinating and AWESOME), it's just that I love him so much now, that I think my care and love and compassion for him maybe extends beyond what I feel for FitzChivalry. I mean I just adore him*. (Identifying the Fool as a him because that's how he's described in the Farseer Trilogy, but they are described as a woman throughout the Liveship Trilogy. It's pretty obvious that the Fool is gendered how they want to be gendered depending on the characters they're appearing to).
The character everyone else loves that I don't: Probably Burrich. I really don't like him as a character. I think he's abusive, and I think that nothing really makes that okay; despite the extensive descriptions of how 'tough' his life has been, or how he sometimes pulls his shit together for Fitz on occasion.
The character I love that everyone else hates: I'm not sure. Who does everyone hate? Regal, obviously - and I love him as a villain; oh man do I ever love him as a villain. Regal influenced Augus in terms of mannerisms (and certainly the Nightingale). (Just as Fitz kind of influenced Gwyn). But I don't love Regal like 'you're my friend!' I love him like 'YOU ARE SUCH A GREAT VILLAIN.'
The character I'd want to be like: Kettricken is such a badass, but they all sort of get a really bad run of luck so I'm not sure which character I'd most want to be like. You know, Verity is great but he works too hard. Chivalry seems really interesting but he's a non-character. Maybe Night-Eyes, if only because he seems - at least for a while - so unconcerned with the world of humans.
The character I'd slap: ...GALEN
A pairing that I love: I am pretty hardcore Fitz/Fool as a shipper.
A pairing that I despise: Haven't actually seen any other pairings in the fandom, to be honest!