#csa ment

[grecoromanyaoi]

people on here r rly like 'attraction to big people is fetishistic, attraction to small people is pedophilic, having sexual thoughts about a real person is objectifying and basically harassment (and having them about fictional people is perverted), kinky sex is immoral, if youre open about your sex life in any way youre a pervert, if youre not open about them you are queerbaiting. basically you should be completely sexless while everything you do is sexualized and up for debate/speculation. this is good for the lgbt community'

[annabelle--cane]

the thing that is legit getting under my skin about the current wave of pittcourse is the weird presumption a lot of people are operating under that addicts and csa survivors are wholly separate groups with opposed interests and that if you want to join in on the #diskhorse and defend one then you're allowed to trash the other. "addicts expect to get away with so much and then get all whiny when they don't get enough sympathy for problems they made for themselves unlike Real Traumatized People" "just because someone was molested as a child and institutionally failed doesn't mean they get to keep playing the victim and vindictively take it out on Poor Innocent Men" <- I hate every single thing about both of these stances, actually. fandom arguments that are really really bad for anyone with any kind of life experience at all.

[djuvlipen]

adrienne rich 😭😭😭😭

[gaystan]

In relation to your cartman post, can we get your read on him? Im always curious how people see the characters

i think him being genuinely interesting and complex doesn’t change that he’s more of a plot device than a person (more so than the other main boys, all characters are plot devices but stan, kyle, kenny, and butters are more human) he has a personality and interests and hobbies and very interesting relationships dynamics and is undeniably queer. he’s so insanely freudian, literally killed his father to achieve a “final form” as a true villain, has an imaginary friend that shows his bigotry is tied up in his internalized homophobia and sense of romance, his mother probably molested him. every instance of cartman being implied to be/straight up sexually abused is played for laughs but explains so much of his behavior. all of these things are true alongside him serving as an avatar of The Absolute Worst Of American Culture. he’s irredeemable because he’s cartman from south park; i don’t believe any character is beyond redemption but the fabric of the show depends on him being evil and if cartman was capable of change, it wouldn’t be south park.

[kingcatnine]

i just really am not enjoying the Nadine subplot I feel like they're playing it as (dark) comedy but it's not funny at all and it's jarring to see "grown woman pursues teenage boy and nobody gaf" played for laughs where last season "grown men pursued teenage girl and nobody gave a fuck" was the tragedy. so What Are We Fucking Doing

[joeyclaire]

seeing your posts about asriel and kris, i just wanted to throw in my two cents: i think kris loves asriel. that doesn't excuse any harm he might have caused them, but it adds to the complex feelings kris must have about him. he let them have the proper game controller while he used the knock-off one, he would take them to the diner even after their parents got divorced, he carried them to school when they were little. their throat tightens when they drink hot chocolate, likely because it reminds them of him. it's so hard to reconcile that someone who loves you would hurt you in such a terrible way. why couldn't he have just been the big brother they needed? why did he have to ruin it?

there are a million ways to interpret their dynamic and deltarune’s asriel himself mainly because we haven’t even met him yet, and kris adoring a brother who hurt them so badly is one of the most heartbreaking ones. going off that idea i propose you this: i’ve read about cases of sibling incest where they were both very young and the perpetrator grows up to be incredibly remorseful and spends years of their lives trying to make up past actions to their sibling. asriel being “always a crybaby,” in undertale while apologizing for all the horrible things he did as flowey combined with him desperately confessing to “various… ‘sins.’ despite the absence of sin, of confession, in our religion.” in deltarune leads me to believe if abuse happened it is very possible asriel may have reacted similarly here.

[2ward]

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feeling very molested today not happy not pleased about things in general . not much i can do now . feels so stupid to be upset about things so long ago but its fine

[gwensy]

sometimes youre born into child rape and torture world to two crazy bitches but it doesn't have to be like that forever and by next year i forsee chicago with the people i love. computer play this year Loud enough to kill