#csa t

[john-marshall]

i gotta be real with you guys. i don’t care whether or not allegations are true but i do think that it’s very telling when people make the decision to debunk csa allegations because they like the person that is alleged to have done it. it’s disturbing

[vaelkyrie]

i understand the drive to respond to the #kevin spacey issue with denial and bargaining - "hes not actually gay he only said it for pr" and "hes not part of the community then" - but the fact of the matter is there are predators in every community and lgbt is unfortunately no different. i know its especially hard because we face so much homophobic stigmatization but to not acknowledge and address abuses perpetrated in our own community hurts the victims more than anyone else.

[konekorambles]

Okay once you refer to a relationship between a 19yo and a 24yo as “pedophilia” it is time to go outside and look for some perspective yall

[fuckjameis]

I guess it’s cool that mama June lost a bunch of weight but like also did we all forget that she dated someone who was convicted of molesting her own daughter???

[pumkinpaws-archive-moved]

im a virgin. laugh at me.

[whitewashedhanzo]

[justhypersexualthings]

Does it make sense to be hypersexual after losing your virginity at 5 years old and then becoming obsessed with masturbation and later porn?

yeah, those experiences could definitely cause hypersexuality, anything sexual as a child in itself is a huge red flag and warning sign.

[justhypersexualthings]

thinking about sex kind of disgusts and terrifies me bc my stepdad used to leave cameras in the bathroom to see me showering and in my bedroom to see me changing and he’d sometimes climb into my bed when he was drunk and try to touch me and id manage to stop him so i feel invalid since i was never raped but ? i feel like im hs even so? and im so ashamed of it? but i cant really control how im gonna respond to sex either one min im fine and the next im uncomfortable and freaking out i hate myself

thats fucking awful and its definitely a valid cause for hypersexuality he was preying on you and being sexual with you. shame is really hard to deal with and im sorry, i just want you to know that it’s not your fault, that your disorder isn’t your fault.

-c