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This web comic really resonated with me. It's pretty much my scenario. My wife is vanilla, but practiced dominance when I came out to her.

Moral Sense (Love and Leashes) is a great story, whether you're vanilla or not. Highly recommend !

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Question for the subs!

If you know that chores need to get done, and there's a high likelihood that you won't get praise or acknowledgement after doing them, would you still have the motivation to do them?

For example, the trash cans around your house are overflowing. You take them out. Your Dom doesn't tell you you did a good job or something similar.

I guess this also comes down to if praise is a big part of your dynamic, as well. For me, praise is a bit part of my submission, but also doing things for my Dom without being told also gives me a rush.

I'm curious about everyone's thoughts and opinions!

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Latest experience

Hey, everyone. It's been a long time since I've posted my own stuff.

I wanted to share an experience that Mistress and I had last night. Disclosure: this will be explicit, but that's kind of a given.

Let me lead into this by saying that I have been looking into chastity play more lately. When we first got into this lifestyle, our "intro to BDSM" kit had a steel cage for me. It worked, but the shape and edges were a bit painful. I could only wear it for an hour or so before I was feeling actual pain, not even kinky pain. PSA: Chastity cages should be uncomfortable, never painful! If your cage hurts you after only a short time wearing it, you need a new cage. So, I was already a bit aroused. (I ended up buying a new silicone cage on Pinkcherry during their spring sale. Fingers crossed!)

So, Mistress knew that I was already a bit frisky. She had denied me a few times already, saying that she was not in the mood and had some other valid reasons. I wasn't upset that she didn't want to-- I can wait-- but I was very horny.

But last night, after dinner, she showed an interest in some intimate time together. After we took our showers, she told me to just wait on the bed, so I obeyed. Before I knew it, she threw my blindfold on and pushed me down on the bed. Then, she cuffed me to a rope that was wrapped around the bed frame so my hands were stuck above my head. (very kinky, very hot). Then, she slipped on my collar.

I laid there for a moment, taking it all in: the cool air on my skin giving me goosebumps, and the sound of her moving around the room.

I felt the sensation of a feather on my body as Mistress dragged the feather wand along my skin. I couldn't help but twitch my muscles. After some time with sensory play, she slapped my body with the crop-- pain and pleasure.

As much as I love the crop / feather combo, her nails are my favorite sensory play. She ran her nails down my body and teased me on my pelvis. I was a whimpering mess and was breathing shakily. She chuckled, knowing that I was needy for her. She knew what I wanted.

It escalated quickly. She grabbed me and started stroking. My sensations were skyrocketing. I was so overstimulated and the sensations just sent me over the top. I was involuntarily thanking and praising my Goddess, saying that I didn't deserve her. She laughed and said she knew already. This fed into her teasing and touching. My restraints kept me down, but I couldn't help but convulse and twitch. After some time, I was just shaking uncontrollably. (P.S. - Mistress made it a rule long ago that I cannot say "Oh God" during our intimate time. I must say "Oh Goddess" because, well, she's my Goddess. It's a fun thing to spice up a scene with!)

She mounted me and we made intense love. It was some of the best for her, she said. I felt so dehumanized while blindfolded, bound, and mounted. I made it a point to be a useful plaything for her and put her pleasure first (as always).

I'm glad that Mistress and I have come so far that we are comfortable with our dynamic. I hope that chastity will unlock another layer of bonding between us and that the power play will be even more apparent.

If your partner is kinky, and you are still getting into the groove of it, just know that they are being vulnerable for you. They want you to do the kinky things to them. It will make them more aroused, and in turn, please you how you want to be pleased. Communication and consent are key, of course, but be sure your partner is just as fulfilled as you are.

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Mistress and I were doing a scene a couple weeks ago. It was nothing out of the ordinary, but I had been down on myself (body image stuff) earlier. So, Mistress had me kneel with my blindfold on while she inspected me. While walking around me, she said that I had said some very mean things about her slave, her property, and that she didn't appreciate that. [We had talked about my body image stuff before. We got a little heated because I called myself some names she didn't like]

I cried. Right there on the ground in a place that I love being in. There was no warning. I cried tears of sorrow. Seeing my words in that perspective really hit me harder than our discussion/argument had earlier. I kept my composure and stayed as still as I could during my inspection.

Perhaps d/s can really hit us harder than a typical discussion because we want to be the best sub or dom we can. If we aren't "taking care of the property" or keeping ourselves happy and healthy, we won't be our best selves-- in or out of the dynamic.

You're loved. You're worth it. Remember to be kind to yourself, especially on your worst days. 🤗

[cybister015]

Ugh it felt so good to have a d/s back and forth today. All the while knowing Mistress is at the office and I'm at home doing chores.

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PSA to everyone. I have received some messages from blogs who SEEM real, but are actually bots or fakes. They (male sub) came into my dms seemingly a real person. Then they started to ask really personal (d/s) questions. When I denied their request for info and for pics, they deactivated their account.

Please be safe everyone. The fakes are getting more and more clever.

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Add another to the block list!

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Trying to be a good sub and cook dinner for Mistress and I. I tend to be the cook , since I get off work before she does.

She should never have to cook after coming home from 10 hours of work.

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