You know, if he’s dumb and decides to forgive her and get back together with her (which is going to happen), it’s okay. But it has to be on his terms. On his time. I’m glad people are enforcing this idea that he deserves the space he wants and that Rachel has to give it to him if she wants to get back together with him.
But Rachel is not doing it. Because “the only way I know how to do it is to fight”. Doing this is actively going against what he asked for, against the boundaries he established to protect himself, to heal himself, and she doesn’t care because she’s also hurting and she wants to fix it in a way that’s convenient to her. Imho, she’s just giving him more reason to want more space from her and not wanting to get back together. And it just shows that they’re not good together, I’m sorry.