You wrote he dated a Danielle, do you mean Danielle Brandon??? They have followed each other for a couple of years but they never dated!
NO, Anon, NOT Danielle Brandon--I never heard of her until today. Not sure why you're getting so riled up ! about it. And you must be new. When I mention a Danielle in relation to having dated Sam, I mean Danielle Kling. She was a yoga and fitness instructor/real estate agent from Hawaii, who briefly dated Sam in 2019.
Sam posted from Hawaii in February of 2019. 👇 This pic doesn't say Hawaii, but it was confirmed later that's where he was.
For those living under a rock, Ruby Rose was his costar in the movie SAS Red Notice...and is out as lesbian...so nothing to see here about her comments to him. Anyhoo, Danielle changed the name of her iG account but this is her around the same time Sam was in Hawaii. 👇
It's been so long, that I can't remember HOW we got confirmation that Sam and Danielle had seen each other while he was in Hawaii and after, but we DID.
Then, a few months later, in May of 2019, a Brazilian fan spotted Sam walking around Edinburgh with a woman that looked suspiciously like Danielle. Danielle used to wear her hair in braids exactly like that. And the height and slim body build match her. 👇
Back then, I posted pics of Danielle showing the same hairstyle. Sorry for the blurriness, but these are screencaps of screencaps. 👇
Here's another example. 👇
As is ALWAYS the case anytime Sam dates a woman who is NOT Cait, Extreme Shippers came out in droves to create sock accounts and BULLY Danielle. But, despite all her zen and usually calm demeanor, Danielle wasn't having it, and she posted an IG story calling out the haters and their comments to her. 👇
That was YEARS ago, Danielle is now partnered up with a great guy, and recently had a baby girl.
I don't think I ever coined a couples name for Sam and Danielle, so, I guess it makes it harder to search for past info on them. But that's it. It was short lived.
Why are we assuming that he’s the one to end relationships? It might be the girls? He might be a massive wanker?
Nobody is assuming anything, I KNOW some things FOR SURE due to my insider sources. I don't know WHO broke off EACH relationship or casual dating, but some I DO know.
SAM broke it off with Amy Shiels to date Cody Kennedy (resulting in the infamous The Barbie Wars). Plenty of proof of this.
SAM broke it off with Cody Kennedy to date Abbie Salt. (My source info was later CONFIRMED by Cody's mom, who posted about it on social media).
Sam and Abbie were last seen together in November 2015 (both posted pics skeet shooting in Scotland) and after that, Sam spent Christmas 2015 and New Year's 2016 solo in Thailand, doing Muay Thai training and decompressing. I can't remember who ended that relationship, but it seems it was probably mutual.
Then with Mackenzie Mauzy, I had a few inside sources, but one particular source (who CONFIRMED on Tumblr that she was my source) said the reason the relationship between Sam and Mackenzie ended was because HE didn't want to get married and have kids yet, and she did.
As for Gia Marie, I talked to someone who DMed with one of her friends and her friend confirmed HE ended it. Gia thought they could have something longer term and he didn't want that.
The other casual ones he dated, like Danielle Kling, Georgia Ellenwood, if we can believe Monika Aksamit (she talked to some of these women and did a podcast about Sam), HE ended the relationships. I don't know about Christina Ochoa.
And Hannah James, that one, it does seem like SHE ended it, but who knows.
As for the most recent casual ones, Anna Modler, Monika Clarke, and Katrina Komitsch, signs point to HIM dating casually and moving on.
I haven't heard one story of the woman ending it and Sam being the brokenhearted one. That doesn't mean it hasn't happened, but the INFO I've gotten, doesn't support that. The INFO I've gotten from sources supports Sam being the one to break it off the MAJORITY of the time. That doesn't mean 100% of the time though.
I DO think eventually Sam will be in a committed relationship AGAIN..and for some reason, I don't know why, I have a good feeling about Karina Elle. But I could be totally wrong. 🤷♀️ Time will tell...
All I know is THIS 👇 man, his Scottish charm, and TMGD are hard to resist, and have been known to make grown women lose their dang minds...some for longer than others. 🙃
Is it so that if you are not a fit woman, or not an actress, or not a model, or not big sized, mean that Sam will not even look at you? Depend on his all girlfriends and flirtations. Am I right in that?
You know what they say--past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. This is Sam's past pattern 👇
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Anon, do you see anything other than fit, gorgeous young women? Negatory, nope, no.
And for those who will inevitably say "You're making Sam out to be a manwhore!" Um, 19 women since 2011 (that's when he was dating Katie Rebekah Osborne) is 1.72 women a year...Sam is...dare I say it? practically "a monk," especially by Hollywood standards. Them's the facts, folks. 🤷♀️
Finally home, as promised, here's the LATEST Monica Aksamit drama...
For those who don’t know, Monica is a 31 year old, 6 foot tall, American (of Polish descent) Olympic medalist in fencing, who mostly lives in New York. She and Sam Heughan used to mutually follow on social media, they flirted, DM’ed, and talked about getting together in person the next time Sam was in New York, but that didn’t happen. Instead of MOVING ON, Monica went on an all out campaign to PUBLICLY badmouth him. Sam's "toxic" behavior was that he "led on" Monica, kept promising to meet up, never did, then still kept contacting her after. Psst, Monica, come a little closer, let me whisper in your ear, “He’s just not that into you.” But Miss Thang’s Olympic size ego couldn’t deal with that and she proceeded to smear Sam in a MONETIZED $$$ podcast on Apple and Spotify, as well as other outlets. More on that later... Eventually it all died down and we all went back to forgetting about her...guess that was the problem. So, a few days ago, Monica decided to resurrect her beef against Sam 👇 Gee, what a coinky dink that she is trying to get attention again riiiiiight after she got eliminated as a contestant on the dating reality show “Joe Millionaire.” Hmm.
Click on Keep Reading for the rest of the post. It’s a long one, so put up your feet, and grab a beverage...
And guess WHO befriended Monica and supported her bashing of Sam? None other than the biggest Outlander fandom Sam haters--Cant Resist Temptation and her Minions, who consist of Ex-Extreme SamCait Shippers, Shipper Sympathizers, and assorted fandom Mean Girls. The comments below belong to Monica aka mon mons right here on Tumblr. She left comments on CRT’s Tumblr blog and is commiserating with other Sam haters about their mutual guilty pleasure--hating on Sam. 👇 It says a lot about Monica's level of pettiness that she’s talking to FANS...I mean who does that? And on top of that, fans who clearly have a bias and an agenda. JS. But speaking of agenda...Monica knows all about it...$
And of course, the worst of the worst dedicated Sam haters, CRT, Bootsauce and Frenchy rabidly jump in to express their support of Monica. Just picture the DM’s going back and forth between Monica and that group. I can almost smell the putrid froth from here. 👇 They’re all acting as if this is some #metoo type of abusive situation when the REALITY is Sam’s “just not that into you,” and Monica was butthurt and decided to make a mountain out of a molehill. Let’s save the outrage for REAL victims of abuse. I hate when women play victim when they’re anything but--takes credibility away from real victims. I’m not a Sam mommy, I don’t think he walks on water, and I know he’s not a saint, BUT what happened between Sam and Monica did not warrant her vindictive actions. And worse, she used Sam to get her name out there, give herself more visibility, and make money. Thirsty doesn’t begin to cover it.
But, let’s backtrack a bit and do a history lesson of how this all came to be. Like I said, a few years ago, Sam and Monica were mutually following on social media. If you do a search of Sam and Monica’s names on different social media platforms, you’ll see some interactions that were friendly and flirty. Tumblr limits screencaps to 10, so I’m not posting those, but they’re out there. At some point, Monica Tweeted that she needed help to have enough money to go to the Olympics (I can’t find that exact Tweet, so I’m assuming she deleted it). And Sam replied to her and retweeted her Tweet, thus giving her fundraising campaign FREE publicity, since his over 700,000 Twitter followers would see it. Monica got some hate from Extreme Shippers who don’t like it when Sam talks to pretty, sporty, young blondes, and she also interacted with some fans who showed her support. 👇 As you can see, her Go Fund Me campaign exceeded expectations, and in no small part to the boost Sam gave her by Retweeting on his account.
Weeelll, as the saying goes “no good deed goes unpunished,” and things eventually went south between our two blonde giants. Sam and Monica continued to DM and flirt and made plans to get together whenever Sam was in New York next, but an in person date never came to fruition. Sam is VERY BUSY, so I’m not surprised, BUT, the reality is if a guy is into a woman he will MAKE THE TIME to see her. When Sam didn’t follow through on tentative plans, THAT should have been the signal to any woman who has dated human men, that, say it with me, “he’s just not that into you.” But, guess Mon Mon didn’t get the ages old dating memo.
Should Sam have been direct and told her he actually wasn’t interested? In an ideal world, yes. But, as we’ve seen, Sam is a people pleaser, doesn’t like anyone getting mad at him, and on top of that, he’s a HUGE flirt, who doles out his ubiquitous “let’s meet for a wee dram the next time I’m in town,” to any remotely attractive woman. I’m sure he figured when he didn’t actually SEE Monica IN PERSON, that she would get the message that it was a no go. But of course, that’s not what happened. Should Monica feel disappointed and upset that Sam made it seem like they were going to get together in person, continued to contact her, and then flaked? Of course, that’s an appropriate reaction. But once she figured out there was not going to be any Samonica, she should have put on her big girl panties and set her sights on someone who actually wanted to be with her. And realized what smart women with life experience know, when a man is into you, he will make the effort to SPEND TIME WITH YOU. Now you know.
What is NOT an appropriate reaction is what Monica ended up doing and continues to do. She went all over social media badmouthing Sam, acting like he was killing puppies FFS, AND created a podcast where she directly badmouths him and MADE MONEY OFF OF IT. 👇 And she’s STILL badmouthing him. SMH.
In her podcast, she talks about all the men who have wronged her (Gee, who’s the common denominator here?) but it’s interesting that the ONLY one she has ever named is Sam, the one who is rich and famous and has tons of followers. Why hasn’t she mentioned the names of the other men? $$$ In the podcast, we find out exactly how over the top her reaction to what happened is. She admits that she used to “stalk” Sam’s whereabouts, she scoured the Internet to find out who else Sam had dated, going as far as reaching out to these women! (As an aside...2 of Sam’s exes she contacted blocked her). Well that sends a clear message on whose side they were on AND helps us gauge Monica’s level of crazy.
Eventually, after Monica gathered all her intel, she made the podcast where she PUBLICLY smears Sam’s name. Oh, and if Sam was such a terrible person and she didn’t want anything to do with him, how come she didn’t block him when she first made her podcast? (Now they’ve both mutually blocked) but as you can see below 👇 Sam “liked” one of her pics not long after all of this was happening. You can’t do that if you’re blocked. Also important to note, with few exceptions, ALL of Sam’s exes and ex flings still follow him on social media, including some of the women Monica talked to, like Georgia Ellenwood and Danielle Kling. If he’s such a "toxic" man, why haven’t THEY blocked him?
Monica has a right to be pissed off all she wants that Sam made promises to see her and then didn’t, but to then launch a public witch hunt against him is so OVER THE TOP and not commensurate at all with what actually happened. They never even met in person! The same way a woman has a right to change her mind, doesn’t a man have the same right? Sam thought he wanted to go on a date with Monica and then he CHANGED HIS MIND. That’s not a crime. Or are some women under the impression that once he tells a woman "we should have a wee dram when I'm in town," he is OBLIGATED to go through with it? That sounds like forcing someone to do something they don't want to do just because there was a previous expectation. And that's NEVER acceptable for women or men. And given everything we now know about how Monica behaves, Sam had good instincts that she was a train wreck and he thankfully dodged a bullet.
ALSO, she said Sam “threatened” her. It’s disconcerting that she used the word “threaten” to describe Sam and his legal team warning her that they would pursue legal action if she continued to malign him publicly. But if we’re going to use emotion-laden words, with viscerally aggressive connotations, let’s continue with “threaten.” SHE threatened him FIRST, she went after HIM. Um, she PUBLICLY smeared his name AKA his brand, of course he was going to defend himself. He had every right to have his legal team contact her letting her know that if she continued slandering him, they would report her to the Olympic Committee and Fencing Association for “conduct” violation. Read their rules of conduct and she violated them with her libelous words against another person. In addition, it would be understandable if Sam decided to have a cease and desist order sent if she continued to publicly slander him, since it could have an effect on his career. That's not Sam "threatening" her, that's Sam protecting his livelihood.
Here she is encouraging people to promote the podcast where she bashes Sam and inciting them to "blow it up ladies" IOW make it go viral AKA witch hunt against Sam. And notice the shout out to follow her on all her social media accounts and "support this podcast." $$$ 👇
Every woman Sam has actually been in a relationship with (not just hit on in DM’s) has nothing but nice things to say about him, and like I previously mentioned, the majority still follow him, that speaks volumes. Even, his ex Cody Kennedy’s mom, Jinx Kennedy, said “I don’t have anything bad to say about Sam, he was a gentleman,” and this was after Sam broke up with her daughter to go back to Abbie Salt! Again, that speaks volumes. Is Sam perfect? No. Can he be a douche? Of course. He’s a human male, they can all be douchy at some point from birth to death. But overall, he is a good guy, and the MAJORITY of people who know him attest to that. It’s sad that one bitter Betty, I mean miserable Monica took it so far, and for her own self-serving ulterior motives. $$$ I’m getting tired writing this...almost done.
Here’s something that’s ironic. Monica criticized Sam for messaging her and then blowing her off, yet here she is rationalizing why it’s okay for HER TO DO THE SAME THING. Hypocrite, much? 👇
And for someone who claims to want to keep her private life private she sure DOES the OPPOSITE. 👇 Again, hypocrite, much? And she mentions she worries men will want to date her for the “clout.” Um, NO ONE knows who she is except Olympics fans...oh wait, NOW THEY DO, because she made sure of that by ranting and raving about Sam “ghosting” her, MAKING MONEY off her association with Sam, and most recently, going on the nationally televised reality show “Joe Millionaire.” Which ironically is about MULTIPLE women trying to win the heart of a MILLIONAIRE...gold digger, give me my 15 minutes of fame, much? Literally 15 minutes on the show and she was the first one voted off by BOTH men. She claims it’s because they both thought she was too tall...yeah, I guess it didn’t have anything to do with her off-putting personality and the ding ding ding bunny boiler alerts going off in both guys’ heads at all. Sure, Jan.
Monica keeps Tweeting that she’s a “strong confident woman.” She can SAY that all she likes, but her ACTIONS have shown us quite the OPPOSITE. How she dealt with being rejected by Sam has solidified her reputation as a woman who is emotionally immature, petty, vindictive, bitter, stalkerish, fame-hungry, with a pinch of gold digger, and gives off red flags galore. Proceed with caution--if you piss her off, she’ll talk about you in her podcast and make money off you. Good luck finding any sane guy wanting to date this colossal HOT MESS now. Way to go, Mon! 👏
Hi!! Is there any explanation why there are loads of pictures of Sam and his girlfriends etc all over the world and hardly any of him and his dates in Glasgow?
The short answer to that is that people in Scotland don't give a shit about who an actor is dating and they treat Sam like the local dude that he is.
Here's some background info...
I used to have a Glasgow source who lived near Sam's old apartment in the West End. She would literally walk by it every night after work and give me an update as to if the lights were on or not, etc. Hey, she had go walk by his place on her way home anyway, why not give me the scoop, right? 😊 She NEVER took pics when she would see him. One time, she saw Sam at the market, stood behind him in line (he was buying fish for dinner btw) but she refused to ask him for a pic. She said "we don't do that." She said Scots love to take the piss out of each other and it wouldn't be the norm to pay Sam much attention even if he was recognized.
When he was dating Abbie Salt, back in the day, someone saw them eating at his favorite porridge place on the weekends she would visit from London--again, no pics.
There have been fan pics in Scotland take BY Sam's girlfriends. Below is one of those times. I can't find the actual fan pic, but these are DMs with the fan where she confirmed it was Mackenzie with Sam walking around Edinburgh holding hands. This was years ago, of course and it's from my old and now dormant Tumblr account @fortruthseekers . 👇 There were other DMs were she confirmed Mackenzie was the one who took the pic of her, her friend, and Sam.
Here is a pic of Sam and Mackenzie Mauzy in Glasgow 👇 Very rare.
And this one is at the airport, but I can't remember if this one was in Glasgow or elsewhere. 👇
There was also a sighting of Sam and a petite blonde in Edinburgh in 2019. That one was not taken by a Scottish person but by a tourist. 👇
Two of the women he had been rumored to be dating at the time--Danielle Kling and Georgia Ellenwood both wore their hair in braids and are petite. 👇
So, people surmised the petite blonde photographed with Sam in Edinburgh was either Danielle or Georgia.
Also, when dates visit Sam in Glasgow, Sam isn't on vacation, he's on his turf and has a homebase, so I'm assuming he spends more time entertaining at home-hence less chance for pics in public.
Since so many people have asked for it already, is there any way you can post the Sam girlfriends timeline on your blog? Or would that bring trouble from ES lurking here? Thanks.
Hi Anon, I have gotten a bunch of requests for this in Asks, Comments, and DM's, I'm too tired to do a full retrospective with exact dates, picture and video proof, etc (it's all out there), BUT I will do a sort of summarized general timeline. As for trouble from ES lurking...that's never stopped me. Hahahaha.
Amy Shiels: Sam and Amy starred in the movie "Young Alexander" in 2003. The movie didn't get released for like 10 years. They seem to have been FWB (Friends With Benefits) on and off 2003 until 2014. For more info, search hashtag #AmyShiels and #TheBarbieWars #BarbieWars #Samy. Confirmed dated, but most likely FWB. More on Amy down below.
Abbie Salt: First met around 2011, when Sam filmed "A Princess for Christmas" with Abbie's sister, actress, Charlotte Salt. They dated briefly then. For more info, search hashtag #AbbieSalt #Sabbie. Confirmed dated. More on Abbie down below.
Katie Rebekah Osborne: Dated before 2012, broke up when Sam left London to tour with Batman Live and Katie moved from London to Australia. For more info, search hashtag #KatieRebekah #KatieR. Confirmed Dated.
Amy Shiels: After being on and off for years, Amy went with Sam to the premiere of Outlander in New York in July 2014. Then when Sam went to L.A. where Amy lives in Sept. 2014, after Outlander Season 1 filming ended. Amy and Sam were photographed out on dates... until Sam met another petite blonde, Cody Kennedy in Oct. 2014. For more info, search hashtag #AmyShiels and #TheBarbieWars #BarbieWars #Samy. Confirmed Dated.
Cody Kennedy: October 2014 to sometime in January 2015. For more info, search hashtag #CodyKennedy #TheBarbieWars #BarbieWars #Sody. Confirmed dated.
Abbie Salt: When Sam went back to the UK for the holidays Dec. 2014,Jan. 2015, he met up with Abbie again and they rekindled their romance. Cody went bye-bye and Abbie and Sam dated from around February 2015 to November 2015. For more info, search hashtag #AbbieSalt #Sabbie. Confirmed dated.
Mackenzie Mauzy: Sam's longest committed relationship was with actress/singer, Mackenzie Mauzy. They dated from around March 2016 (first seen together by my eyewitness source holding hands at the Guns N Roses concert in L.A. April 1, 2016) to some time in 2018. For more info, search hashtag #MackenzieMauzy #Samzie. Confirmed dated.
After Mackenzie, Sam seems to have dated a variety of different women and does not seem to have been involved in another exclusive relationship.
So for 2018 to the present, 2021, here are the women Sam has been seen with (not in chronological order, since I can't remember exact dates and I'm not going to go searching). I'll post the women's name and the hashtag to search under for more info:
Pretty Blonde with Sam at Nobu London opening #NobuMysteryBlonde #NobuMysteryWoman Unconfirmed whether that was his plus one date for the event or a PR person. Has never been identified by name as far as I know. Fandom CSI fail. Unconfirmed dated.
Hayley Helene #tunagate girl #HayleyHelene. Not confirmed they dated, but she was on the boat with him during #tunagate so people assumed. Unconfirmed dated.
Danielle Kling #DanielleKling, woman he met in Hawaii. Also most likely the woman with the braids spotted with Sam in Scotland later on. Fan posted a pic. Confirmed dated.
Christina Ochoa: #ChristinaOchoa #Samtina, picture of them holding hands...at an airport, I think. Confirmed dated.
Georgia Ellenwood: #GeorgiaEllenwood #Samgia Spent time together in Chicago, he also went to one of her meets in NY, she posted IG story with Sam. Pretty much confirmed dated.
Hannah James: #HannahJames #Samnah #Jamieva #PlotTwist. Recently received source confirmation that Sam and Hannah did indeed date, I think sometime 2018 or 2019. MORE on Hannah down below.
Gia Marie: #GiaMarie #MissGia #G #Gia #MissGiaMarie #GiaSam #Hawaiigate Pic of them with their arms around each other walking on Malibu Pier, both posted from weekend getaway to Del Mar or Big Sur, can’t remember which one it was, I think it was Del Mar. Anyhoo, they went away together for a weekend getaway at a beach town in CA before they spent weeks in Hawaii together. Both posted from quarantine in Hawaii. Confirmed dated.
Anna Longford: #AnnaLongford #A #AH Mutually followed on Instagram. She lives near London, but posted from Scotland a lot, when Sam was there. He also was in London when she was there. Speculation simply because same place, same time, they mutually follow, and she’s the type he usually goes for--pretty, sporty, blonde. Complete speculation and unconfirmed dated.
Hannah James: #HannahJames #Samnah #Jamieva #PlotTwist. Both Sam and Hannah have been in Los Angeles, specifically Malibu recently. I have source confirmation that Sam was in L.A. still as of Friday. Not sure if he’s still here or not. But as of Friday, Sept. 3, 2021, he was. Received 100% CONFIRMATION from a trusted person that Sam and Hannah did indeed date sometime starting in 2018-2019. We had all suspected but it had never been confirmed, now it is. Seems like they may still see each other when they can. That part is unconfirmed. But they for sure dated in the past. Pic of them looking cozy together. Comments from mutual friends that would not know Hannah if not for Sam. The only connection is Sam. Confirmed dated.
So, that’s all folks...unless I forgot someone. Sam has had some exclusive, committed relationships and has also dated casually...sounds like a NORMAL MAN to me.
PS. Anyone come at me with any negative comments about Sam and I will blast you. Sam is 41, gorgeous, rich, famous, and a nice guy, given all that, he could have dated 100 times the amount of women by now. By Hollywood standards, he’s, dare I say it? A monk, hahahaha. Like I’ve said before, he should date more, expand his horizons...try a cougar perhaps. Ahem. ;-)
See, I get why S, if he does have a GF would want it to be really private. But I do think both S and Caits separate obsessions with privacy drive the shippers delusions. They both take things farther than your typical celeb
Anon, there's a difference between wanting privacy and Sam and Cait HIDING their REAL relationships. If Sam and Cait went out of their way to HIDE or DENY their relationships with NOT each other, then you would have a point. But they don't hide anything. Cait has been photographed MULTIPLE times over the YEARS with Tony. And Sam has been photographed MULTIPLE times over the YEARS with girlfriends or dates. Yes, they both want privacy to share only what they want to share about significant others. Again, that’s not the same as hiding things from fans. They've both certainly been out enough times with NOT each other, that any REASONABLE person will surmise they are romantically involved with OTHER people.
I'm not going to go digging for ALL the pics of Cait with Tony and Sam with the women he's dated, but here's a small sampling from a quick Google search. Sorry for the blurry quality of some, but they are screencaps of screencaps, etc. Credit to the respective owners of the pics.
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The Cait and Tony pics are self-explanatory and given that they’ve been together since 2014, there are a TON more out there. This is just a tiny sampling. Google Caitriona Balfe and Tony McGill and you will see the rest.
The Sam pics are: Sam with Amy Shiels and her pink bikini in the pool at L’Ermitage hotel in Los Angeles, affectionately known as “poolgate,” that’s the day the ship sank for most of us, Sam and Amy at Crustacean restaurant in Los Angeles with friends. Sam with Cody Kennedy at Matthew Morrison’s Halloween Party, Sam with Cody at a concert. Sam with Abbie Salt at the Monte Carlo Television Festival, Sam with Abbie at HIS old apartment in Glasgow for his birthday. There are other pics of his birthday celebration that include Sam’s mom, mom’s partner, Sam’s brother, sister-in-law, and nephew...and Abbie, his then girlfriend. MULTIPLE pics of Sam with Mackenzie Mauzy at different events, including her brother’s wedding. Not exactly what you do if you’re a “beard” or have a “PR relationship.” Danielle Kling (that’s the super blurry one of them from the back), that pic was taken in Scotland by a fan who saw them walking by. Sam and Danielle met when he was on one of his trips to Hawaii a few year ago. Sam holding hands with Christina Ochoa, later fan confirmed it was indeed Christina in the pic. You can see her distinctive tattoo on her wrist. Georgia Ellenwood posting a pic with Sam’s head showing in the mirror and his leg in the foreground. Sam with his arm around Gia Marie at Malibu Pier. That’s the model and make-up artist he went to Big Sur with and then they spent weeks in quarantine together in Hawaii. Sam looking cozy with Hannah James in Glasgow, arm on her leg.
I posted detailed info in the past about each one, so if you’re interested in further reading, search my blog with the hashtag # of the woman’s name.
So, Anon, please tell me again how Sam and Cait “drive shippers’ delusions.” ANY REASONABLE person who sees the evidence above (and that’s not even HALF of the pictures that are out there) comes to the LOGICAL conclusion that Cait is with Tony. And Sam is well... NOT with Cait.
The fact that Extreme Shippers have seen this same evidence and STILL delude themselves into thinking Sam and Cait are secretly together speaks to THEM and their mental state...and NOT anything Sam and Cait have done or not done.
Yes, I know about the podcast where a disgruntled would be lady friend of Sam's bashes him.
When I first was alerted to it, I didn't bother paying attention to what she was posting on social media leading up to her podcast because I was busy in RL and hadn't had time. Besides, I already knew, like I've been saying since 2014, that Sam is a heterosexual man who dates multiple women, and is not ready to settle down. I don't see anything wrong with that. Meh. This is NOT news.
Then today, I got a ton of DMs on here and some on Twitter, and I got a couple of Anon Asks about it asking me what my opinion is. I literally worked a 10 hour day today and then had some RL stuff to do after. I'm exhausted.
But I finally plopped on the couch and listened to her podcast because people were SO insistent about it. I guess at this point, my followers are wondering why I haven't said anything, and are looking to me to post what I think of it. TBH, I'm SO tired, brain function is slowing down. I'll probably write something when I gather my thoughts and have some time, and some coffee.
But here is my off the cuff initial reaction. Besides anything to do with what happened or didn't happen between Sam and the woman who did the podcast, my MAIN focus while listening to it tonight was: that what she posted sunk the SamCait ship for the millionth time, the "Sam is gay" false narrative got debunked AGAIN, AND we inadvertently got full CONFIRMATION that Sam DID date Georgia Ellenwood (athlete at track meet) and Danielle Kling (girl already living in Hawaii), Gia (new girl he met in Los Angeles and took to Hawaii during quarantine), and that Sam was thinking of rekindling with an ex (Mackenzie Mauzy, pic of her at Comic Con post break up wearing the Barbour jacket he gave her, and I was asked not to post the pic) HAHAHA. Just like I told the fandom. I LOVE when my info gets CONFIRMED. And THAT is and will always be what gets me off in this fandom. The only thing that keeps me here (besides my friends, of course). Sorry if you expected something more lofty...
Bottom line: Sam's a heterosexual human man who is not ready to settle down with one woman. Alert the presses! Lord.
Sam saying to her "Let's get together the next time I'm in town" is not a promise of a date, it's not a promise of anything, it's literally a flashing neon sign meaning "let's leave things open ended," "maybe," "let's play it by ear." And anyone and everyone who has dated enough human males knows this. Did she not get the Man Code Manual? I thought everyone knew this. When a man wants to see you, he doesn't say things like that, he makes CONCRETE plans with you and FOLLOWS THROUGH with them.
PROTIP: an actor who slides into your DMs and says let's get together when we're in the same town, and then doesn't, isn't "ghosting" or "gaslighting" you, he's letting you know without being direct that "he's just not that into you," but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. It seems to me that when the podcast woman figured out that there were women Sam WAS actually into and DID see in person, she got pissed...and got even. It really is a slap in the face to Sam that he helped her with raising funds and she went and badmouthed him publicly. Petty, petty.
MORE PROTIPS: When a man is into you, he, *taps chin* makes the effort to SEE you in person. Simple as that. The fact that Sam didn't, should have been the one and only clue needed to "move on" and find a man who is into you and will want to spend time with you in person. No need to keep waiting around, continuing to DM with or interact with a man who won't SEE you. Me, forever and ever 'splainin the facts of life.
I'm sorry she feels hurt, but it's way over the top that she now has taken it upon herself to "warn" women about Sam. Helloooo, he's not Shia LaBeouf or Armie Hammer FFS. By ALL accounts, pretty much EVERYONE who gets to know Sam says what a nice guy he is, including the women who dated him. Even his ex Cody Kennedy's MOM, Jinx said she didn't have anything bad to say about him, and said he was a "gentleman," and Sam broke up with Cody because, according to what Jinx publicly confirmed on Instagram, "he went back to his old girlfriend in London." (Abbie Salt in 2015)...just like I said sources told me months prior. :-). Sam broke up with her daughter and Jinx said nothing but nice things about Sam.
Is Sam a saint...or Jamie Fraser? NOPE. But, he's not a bad dude, and especially in Hollywood, he's, what I would call, one of the good ones. It's unfortunate that his name is getting smeared over something like this. Her reaction is totally disproportionate to what he actually did. Date a true Hollywood douche and then come back and talk to me. That's not Sam. Sam giving a woman his ubiquitous line "let's get together for a wee dram when you're in town" and then flaking, or flirting in DMs, and not having it lead to anything more did not warrant the bad press she is giving him. But I guess his fans can take solace in the fact that people who actually know Sam know who he really is, and his good heart.
Anyhoo, Imma pour myself a second glass of wine and I'll write something tonight or tomorrow or actually...I don't think I will...I kind of already did. :-).
Pssst: "He's just not that into you." Deal with it.
