In life, sometimes we have to let go of people that we want to hold on to forever. We want to force them and ourselves to stay and hold on to the future we once talked about having with them. We will try to find other solutions to problems already solved but we do not like the answer of.
But that’s life, my dear. Some deep and loving connections will ran its course and fulfill its purpose. And once fulfilled, we must let it go to accept another.
And more often, we don’t want to. We don’t want new because we felt already contented on the old we’ve always had.
But love, life is all about change. Life is all about growth. And we can only grow outside our comfort zone—outside the familiar, away from what we’ve always been with.
Some connections will ultimately reach its end and there’s no way to stop it. Like death.
And we must learn to accept it, my love. We cannot hold on to the same things forever. Specially when better is waiting on us to accept it. It’s hard I know, but it’s what’s needed to be done for us to step into a new chapter of our life. Some characters have finished their plot in our story, it’s time for new people with new adventures for us to experience with them.
Remember that disconnections doesn’t mean the connection failed, it just means it’s already served its purpose and we now have to move forward without them.
It’s okay to release and let go of the future we once thought we would have with the people we never thought we could lose. The love shared is and will always be true but it’s now time to move on for something new.