#demisexualproblems

[blue-gold-demigod-clouds]

Sad thing is I do want to be kissed at midnight but by someone who I’m attracted to

The thing is I’m not attracted to anyone

Sooo ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

#Demisexualproblems

[bnq]

is there a word for a non-thirst follow? but later

like then it turns into one? Like thirst notwithstanding it was and is a legit follow I just did not anticipate this development 😶

[orange-lotus-boy]

Im like so emotionally attracted to girls??? Like I want to date a girl and call her cute and kiss her but I can never be sexually attracted??? I can love and protect her but I cant be physically attracted??? Why?????

[bomberqueen17]

So, uh.

Sometimes I go through phases where aesthetically-appealing people totally captivate me-- like, in person, in pictures, whatever, I can’t get enough of staring at them. And like, it’s not necessarily like I want to bang them, or whatever, I just get really fascinated by their various physical features. (Sometimes it’s not even specific. I’m just like this person, so appealing, must behold.) 

And then I go through phases where I’m like-- here is Beautiful Person, it’s like, a slow-mo gifset of something extremely sexy and high-res, right, fill in your own blanks here-- and the comments are all like “dem thighs though!” or like, “soulful eyes!” and I’m looking at it and I’m like, those are two thighs, for sure, and they definitely connect that person’s groin to their knees, that’s what thighs do, yup yup, and eyes, wow, this person has two of them, that’s very human-normal, I get it. And I feel like an alien.

(This is my current state. Oscar Isaac whips his shirt off and I am amused that he has nice pecs and decent abs and that’s entirely the extent of it. Hah, there is musculature on that man’s torso, contrary to the joke that he does not work out! Objectively amusing! I laugh, possibly even out loud! though probably not, let’s be real here.)

The question, the dilemma, is: Is this demisexuality, or is it anhedonia? 

The fact that I also cannot stir myself to get excited about the prospect of ice cream strongly suggests to me the latter. 

Which is the sort of thing the kids of a previous semigeneration ago used to classify as A Bummer. 

[crushing83]

I just found out there are (as of today) twenty-six couples at the studio. Not including the ones that have broken up or left. Some are married or committed couples, but a lot of them are... not that serious. What am I currently thinking? A) My powers of obliviousness are astounding. B) Our workplace has become a college dorm. C) When did I become a crotchety senior citizen? D) Good for them! E) All of the above.

[oxanayalatorxo-blog]

Me explaining my sexuality be like~

*group of friends talking about sexuality*

Girl 1: I know I'm straight

Girl 2: Yeah me too

Girl 3: same here

Me: I mean I'm straight but I'm not straight...

Girl 1: Omgg Anaya you've dated girls before? 😱😱

*Everyone stares intensely*

Me: no I just am interested in anything along the lines of trans guys, bi guys, pan guys, agenders (but is born a guy) etc but I just don't have a sexual attraction until a deep bond is formed between me and a person..

*feels uncomfortable with the stares*

Girl 3: well maybe it's just a preference not a sexuality

Me: 😐

My non straight friends that happen to pass by: 😂🙄😏😤

Me: *rants so much that I end up roasting all straight people and break down the entire existence of sexuality and life and feelings* 👿😤

Me: *walks away satisfied* I'm so glad I'm not straight 😒

[into-the-endless-night]

Getting sexual thoughts about the person you have an emotional bond with...

[transmasc-ramona-flowers]

I wish people would understand: as a demisexual person, I don't think porn is disgusting or evil. I am just simply not turned on by it. If people want to watch it, then that's their business, and I'm cool with that. I just don't feel sexually aroused by the people in it.