TRIGGER WARNING !
mentions of stalking , the "yandere" trope
and obsessive behavior.
DESIRDARLING
⸻ a desirdae identity where one desires
for any reason to be a darling, or the object
of affection / obsession of a yandere. this
could be because of trauma, mental illness,
enjoyment of the trope in fictional media,
or just because the identifier feels happy
using the label.
⸻ this label can be transitioned to
non-harmfully, but should not be pursued
if the identifier is under 18 or if it is not
mutually consensual on both sides. this
label supports self-inserts and fictional
others that align with the "yandere" trope
as part of a non-harmful transition.
DESIRYANDERE
⸻ a desirdae identity where one desires
for any reason to be a yandere. this could
be due to reclaiming the term yandere as a
caricature of bpd symptoms, trauma,
enjoyment of the trope in fictional media,
or just because the identifier feels happy
using the label.
⸻ this label can be transitioned to
non-harmfully, but should not be pursued
if the identifier is under 18 or if it is not
mutually consensual on both sides. this
label supports self-inserts and fictional
others that align with the "yandere" trope
as part of a non-harmful transition.
EXTRA
⸻ misc:
if these terms already exist, consider
it a recoining or an alternate flag!
⸻ tags:
@desirdae-archive
@radiomogai