#ditto says

[dittohasadhd]

my beloved mutual that is cooler than me and I don't interact with. #mymutual

[dittohasadhd]

♥️ on your vent post is not a "Like" but a little heart that represents "someone out there is listening. no advice, no commentary, but listening. and cares. and wants you to know that."

[dittohasadhd]

hey, I know you're pissed off at Tech Oligarch for all those Violating Things, and you should totally criticize those Things, but perhaps consider not demonizing assistive technology in the process?

[dittohasadhd]

shout out to shitty birthdays and everyone who has one. to the missed birthdays, overshadowed by a holiday or simply forgotten. to the weaponized birthdays, used to prove a point or set a stage for family drama. to the mournful birthdays, spent sick or grieving. to the lonely birthdays, spent in a new city or empty house with no one to share it with. to the silently hated birthdays, for reasons you're not required to disclose.

you're not a downer if you don't want to celebrate. you're not impossible if you have mixed feelings. you're not pitiable for pushing through hard times. you're not a piece of inspiration porn for enjoying parts of it anyways.

[dittohasadhd]

the fact that people still think that tumblr is dead when so much of the rest of the internet is living off of our text posts

[dittohasadhd]

okay, let's try this again.

I make it to my apps even if I'm late. I do the exercises that they prescribe when I have the energy to. I use the tools and equipment that I can access and afford. I take the medicines that I can get my insurance to cover.

I eat more consistently imperfect nutrition is better than none. My sleep quality has improved even if the duration is inconsistent. I'm engaging less with my vices even though I resent it. I've put on weight and I've gotten taller even though I worry one is too much and the other is not enough.

My progress matters, even if it's slow.

I'm improving, right?

[dittohasadhd]

for all the issues that the Marvel Defenders series has, I truly appreciate how every single character flies off the handle the moment that she gets called a bitch.

[dittohasadhd]

I finally got access to a Dropout subscription (thanks @thanarayne ) and we've been watching D20- Neverafter whenever we have an hour or two