Hi, nice to meet you. I'm a fellow demisexual, and I know the term well enough to know it's me, and I know I have to make or wait or.... feel an emotion bond/connection. I always wondered what it would feel like and I kept wondering to myself (and this is my question): What am I supposed to look for (or feel) in an emotional bond/connection? Am I supposed to ask that or will it happen out of nowhere or what? I'm just really nervous that I might not know what to do...
Hmmm. It varies from demi to demi, really.
For me, for instance, my emotional bonds tend to run the course of several years before I experience any attraction. And I’ve only be interested romantically in one of the people I experienced attraction to. It’s my understanding that it happens sort of randomly -- to use the not/all type of phrase, an emotional bond is not necessarily going to result in sexual attraction, but all sexual attraction is going to result from an emotional bond. Someone else might have some insight, so I’m going to publish this.
As for being nervous? I completely understand that. I just don’t know if there’s a solid answer to your question
