#dni willows

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You’re doing what to children??????

Yeah, let’s sit here and brag about how you’re an abuser! Let’s sit here and tell everyone that you love to cause kids extensive & repetitive trauma as 'part of your agenda'!!

And you wonder why everyone hates endos?

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(im not saying you have to be at all)

but are you diagnosed with DID?? this isnt me trying to say you dont have it or anything, im just interested

(sorry this is nosy)

i WOULD be diagnosed 🙄 but no, unfortunately im not. FOR VALID REASONS!!!

i still HATE saying that i have it, for this reason.

i talked to my mom about DID(before i knew) and she said “so the devil” and now refuses to believe its real. and with ALL of my other life changing disorders, she refuses to listen to me. she even brushed me off when talking about my SA. i would love to be diagnosed, and i fucking HATE saying i have DID when im not diagnosed. but, i cant deny the alters, and all the other symptoms.

even while not diagnosed, i AM a traumagen sys. i dont like endos/willows/or any of that stuff. nor do i support them.

i usually refrain from straight up SAYING i have DID, but yk, sometimes i dont have any other way to describe it.

and dont worry about being nosy!! i dont mind. and i understand if people dont believe me because of this, trust me, i get it. and im willing to answer any questions you have!!

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On today’s episode of 'endos love to prove a point', we see this idiot reposting my things just to spew stupid endo propaganda! Oh but not only that, they blocked me too! Despite their page having no dni? (I guess that means no dni, unless you’re right.)

A little too scared to back up your claim, so why not repost it and then block the source! Genius really! Maybe the smartest thing I’ve ever seen someone like them do!

Take it in everyone! Get a nice lonnnng look at it!

If you’re having trouble deciphering what this weirdo is trying to say, let me translate for you :3

"We already believe that systems exist just because they say they do, it’s not a stretch to believe they can be one just because they want to"

Wow! I’ve never actually read something and then rolled my eyes! Congrats! What an achievement.

So let’s start unpacking all the reasons this may be one of the stupidest sentences to ever touch tumblr, (but surely not their keyboard).

1.) I’m sure you will get more 'endogenic'. You aren’t sure how you’re doing that? Let me tell you! You’re roleplaying! You know, that thing that kids used to do on the playground, or roblox? Yeah! You’re doing that right now! Hope this helps!

2.) For the last time, no one woke up one day and said, 'ah, yes, I am a system!' and then it was magically a medically recognized disorder. Do you know what CDD stands for? Complex Dissociative Disorder. Do you know what has to happen in order for you to form a Complex Dissociative Disorder? TRAUMA! You have to endure some form of traumatic experience! There is no such thing as a 'traumagenic' system, because that implies that 'non-traumagenic systems' exist. 'Traumagenic' systems are the ONLY kind of system.

Do you want to hear something crazy? You don’t have to just 'take systems word for it' because there are SO MANY RECOURSES that you can find that will tell you that systems exist & that they cannot exist without trauma. But we both know you won’t read those, because you must be starving to be right about something, and you’re illiterate? (Which brings me to my next point)

3.) I guess we’ll just, glaze over the 'pluraling children’ thing, yeah? I guess it’s not hard for you to see past that, because you have no idea what it’s like to be plural; not even a basic understanding of what it means, you’ve made that clear. Let me help you out some more. 'Pluraling children' isn’t walking up to them and saying “your imaginary friends are realll, make up more and you’ll never be lonely!", no, actually, 'pluraling children' is subjecting them to trauma, so much so that their brain thinks their going to die if something isn’t done about it. Endos love to talk about 'pluraling children’ or how 'the future is plural' because for them, that doesn’t mean traumatized, it means 'the future really likes to play pretend with me; so then I can never be wrong & I’ll never have to block someone on tumblr again!'

4.) someone can’t be a system ‘just because’. For the eight billionth time; CDD‘s are trauma based disorders. They literally wouldn’t exist if it was not for trauma. These disorders are characterized by your ego-states inability to merge properly as a result of dissociative barriers; which would not happen if not for repetitive early childhood trauma. Your brain isn’t going to just do that. It is a survival tactic because your brain sees the situation and decides that if something isn’t done, if it doesn’t build these barriers, you will die. Your brain is not going to put up barriers that stop the integration of your ego-states 'just because'. That’s not accidental. These are real, very complex, very serious, trauma based disorders; and endoscum like you are playing pretend with them.

5.) also, as for this part of your bio

I’d say you’re not very ‘woke’,,,considering what this whole post is about,, but I guess just because something isn’t true doesn’t mean you won’t refer to yourself that way — at least you’ve proven something.

And before another endo tries to crawl into my inbox to whine and moan on anon ⬎ ⬎ ⬎

1.) I don’t feel bad about going to look at their post despite being blocked, no. They blatantly disregarded my dni, (shocking to no one), so I don’t really care how they feel about me looking at what they have to say about me

2.) I’m going to keep their username attached, not because I want people to 'attack' them, but because I want people to have the ability to know who said this so they they can block this person.

3.) If you feel I’m being too hostile, that’s because I’m upset. As always, you’re more than welcome to block me, your dni matters as much as mine because you’re still a person.

4.) that’s all :3

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Force Splitter [alter role]

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤforce splitter

an alter that has the ability to force a split, whether it be a singular alter that’s forced or the system itself. forcing the split can be made possible by: repeated trauma exposure, trauma caused by the alter itself, by accident, etc. this role can be found under the persecutor umbrella but isn’t exclusive

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ! DNI:

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ(pro & neu apply to all)

endos -- willows -- polyminds -- tulpa -- 'non-traumagenic sys' -- transID -- radqueer -- general dni

ㅤㅤㅤthis flag is only for those who are apart of a

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤtraumagenic system.

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤtake your endo shit and leave ! ! <3

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤMade for @izkaipie ! !

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤI love y'all :3

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hey so um! endogenic systems don’t exist, you can’t be a system without trauma. imagine telling trauma victims they’re a non traumagenic system, then saying they’re bad because being a non traumagenic system is impossible when that’s what YOU’RE calling them. imagine invalidating other people’s trauma/disorders calling a trauma survivor a non traumagenic system then acting like they actually identify as one to justify it and act like they’re doing what you’re doing to them. non traumagenic systems aren’t real. maybe touch grass and get therapy instead of invalidating other trauma survivors and being ableist towards other people who struggle with dissociation on the internet to feel better about yourself. telling someone they’re something they can’t be, then saying they’re bad because it’s impossible for a person to be it is so funny tumblr users are amazing. there’s no way you think it’s actually okay in any capacity to tell people their trauma and dissociation isn’t real you just don’t care. i guess no one else’s trauma and disorders are real but yours, keep invalidating people’s trauma and disorders. ik when you reply you’re gonna be like “but ive never done this!!” just to make people feel worse, yeah you never hurt them and you’re not invalidating people’s trauma and dissociative experiences because they DONT have ANY and they’re just fakers

Hi, so I’m genuinely so utterly confused by this ask.

Never have I ever said endos, or any type of 'non-traumagenic sys' are real — that’s the opposite of what I post here.

I am fully aware that you cannot have a CDD without trauma, one of my closest friends is apart of a system and I’d like to consider myself generally educated on these topics.

Having trauma ≠ being a system. I’ve never said that, nor thought it. You have to have trauma to be a system, yes, but having trauma doesn’t automatically make you a system. I have never called someone a 'non-traumagenic system' because they have trauma, and I would never do that?? I only call someone a NTS if they label themselves as one — (endo, willow, tulpa, transcdd, et cetera.) — or act like one in general. (claiming to be a self made 'sys', giving / using 'tips' on how to ‘form a cdd', claiming to be a 'sys' formed without trauma, among other things)

This next part I’m gonna highlight because it isn’t rlly applicable unless you’re who I think you are, so if this isn’t axle please feel welcome to skip past this

you have admitted to faking DID, and you continue to do so, (along with multiple other disorders), it doesn’t matter whether you identify as an NTS or not, when that’s actively what you are.

Another thing I’d like to say, not entirely directed at whoever this is, more so a general statement:

Just because you have trauma doesn’t automatically mean you’re a system. You can have trauma and still be an endo (or any of its variants). If you have trauma & are not a system, but still claim to be one, then you fall into the category of an NTS. Because in that case your 'system' didn’t come from the trauma you endured, it came from you — you made it. It’s roleplay & make believe; nothing more.

I agree with you, 'non-traumagenic systems’ aren’t real! It’s merely a term we use to describe those who pretend to have a serious disorder in the CDD category.

I’m not even ready to unpack this next part, because genuinely what the beautiful flowery fuck are you talking about.

I have been in therapy, I’m getting help for things that don’t concern you in the slightest. Really weird that you assume I’m not when you don’t even know me — because clearly you didn’t read my intro.

If you read anything about me on my page, you’d know that I struggle with dissociation. I am diagnosed with a dissociative disorder & another condition that causes chronic dissociation. I spend every single day in a constant dissociative state, and it affects me very very seriously. I find it absolutely bizarre that you would come onto someone’s page and start accusing them of baseless bullshit, without even glancing over their intro or anything about them. (especially when it’s all laid out in front of you. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink i guess :/). The way you assume I don’t know anything about living with these struggles is baffling to me. Im not ableist to anyone, most definitely not myself???? If anyone here is behaving in an ableist manner, I’d say it’s you.

Like I said before, you can have trauma and still fall into the 'non-traumagenic system' category. If you need a reminder please scroll up about 4 paragraphs and read it again.

You’re absolutely right, I don’t think it’s okay to tell someone that their trauma & dissociation aren’t real! That’s why I would never do it! Who do you think I am??? You clearly know nothing about me, and yet you keep making these insane assumptions.

I care very much. I care about those who have experienced trauma. I care about those who experience dissociation. I care about those with CDD’s. I care about those who struggle with mental health. I care about those who have mental illness or disorders. I care about literally everyone? I even care about you and your wellbeing — despite the fact you’re coming after me for shit that you pulled out of your ass.

I never said that no one has trauma / disorders except for me??? Why would I say that?? I don’t think that in the slightest. A singular scroll down my page would show you this.

And yeah, you’re right, I’ve never done this! I’m not saying that to make you feel crazy, I’m saying this to make you realize that you’re making insane and hurtful assumptions towards a person you don’t know at all.

If anyone here is a weirdo, I’d say it’s you, leaving the same ask on me and my friends pages. Why do you care about us and the lies you’ve conjured up so much when you clearly know nothing about us??? Strange fucking behavior imo :/