AITA for trying to inform my loved one that they have a system?
I've known this person for years and I've seen the signs. From them switching on me and informing me that they're a different person. To them not remembering how got home on the drive back, to them feeling like someone else is puppeting their body sometimes. To their sexuality drastically changing from bisexual to sex repulsed asexual to hypersexual. To them having literal ocs of representations of different parts of themselves. They also have severe childhood trauma with their mother being incredibly abusive, even more than my own.
But they are upset with me for insinuating that they could have this and it's really putting a strain on our relationship. I know the signs, I know I am a system. But for them, all they do is brush off and deny it and I'm struggling to be understanding. I want them to get therapy, but they are in debt. I want to wait for them to be ready, but this is a huge deal to me. If they were aware of things, maybe they could be more understanding and helpful and we could work through this together.
I don't want to keep pushing, but I'm feeling so many conflicting feelings about this. Please help.
AITA?
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