#ego fears

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How do one focus on self realisation while handling school, studies, exams ? Like how do they not get engaged with the ego while doing all that ?

~ Thank You ✨

I'm gonna quote Bry on this (she specifically answered this several times) from here

" You detach from the idea that the person is who you are. Let the person continue to live it's life and fulfill it's obligations like studying, but maintain the knowing that it's not who you are. The ego is not real and whatever is happening "on the outside" is not real."

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Hello ! <3

Actually I'm here from the very start of loa from subliminal to affirmations from 3d to amino apps shiftok I have seen everything ! I have always been successful in manifesting it's like from the start I have thought of me as a creator but now !! For some times I keep getting distracted or misunderstood or idk the thing is the self yes I know self is real duh duh duh but what about Venessa what about Laura these are my creation so how I just leave them like nothing? Ik we all need the inner peace the self knowledge the knowledge of we are everything but characters the ego how can we leave them to be it the connection the family we are the one who created now she is in the problem how are we going to leave her

Is there a thing where I can just silent all these questions and you know I think I'm attached to heal my inner child not the self but the child who have been neglected by my own self nothing is impossible I as a master manifester know it !! But Love why I can't just let it happen why can't I just imagine and think it's over why I keep going back to the old picture why? ( English is not my first Lang and while writing this I think I have adhd too ) I just can't focus

I'm not really sure if I understood your question, it is obvious that you (Ego) are confused right now. I think that you got entangled in all those "teachings" or concepts so let me shed a light on it :)

First of all, there is a massiv difference between what you learned in LOA and what I am teaching here (self realization). What I'm trying to get across to you is that you are no longer stuck in a loop of trying to fulfill an Ego, even if LOA calls that Ego "Self, God or Creator" - they don't know what they are talking about, honestly.

To know your real being you have to first abandon what you thought yourself to be. – Ada (4dbarbie)

You (Ego) wanting to manifest something stems from a THOUGHT of not having it, so you (Ego) want it. You having something, also a thought. Your mind, body, EGO, this world, people are just THOUGHTS of Self / thoughts in Awareness.

Everything already exists in you (Self). You are awareness taking the shape of this body, dreaming of this reality literally. There's nothing to manifest. There's nothing real here. You (Self) imaging lack and desire through an Ego, for real.

You literally got teached to add more imaginary labels to yourself than getting rid of labels altogther aka waking up from the dream. You have to come to the point where you understand that both Egos, Vanessa and Laura, are equally not real. You are making each of them "real" by thinking "this is me" and adding the Ego to your "I am". Let alone that you are asking this questions shows me that you are still very attached to her or both of them. Detach and disbelieve. They are not real or all you are, do you care what happens to a dream when you wake up?

You can do a lot of parctises actually: sit in silence, self inquiry or just understanding who you are are… the second part of your question is kind of already answered in what I already wrote above. Detach, this is Ego talking (also Ego labeling itself "Master-Manifestor" and being afraid of letting go.)

Stop worrying, you are already Self. You only have to let go of the thought that you are this Ego, that's all. Let the thought pass!

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Do you personally believe that everything is truly possible? Since our true being is just consciousness, wouldn't you think that we don't have to even be humans anymore? We could take on forms of mythical creatures, create new worlds from scratch and so so much more, like it's almost crazy to think about. I would love to hear your take on this!🙈

Short answer: yes :)

Well, You (Self, Awareness) are creating this world and its characters (like Ego) every moment from scratch, why would it be crazy to think that you can dream up any new world with new "rules" i.e. mythical creatures exist? You are just too attached to this one (dream) world and that one character specifically that you can no longer see this yourself.

But it is not much of a question if I believe that this can be done since I'm just a figment of your (Self) imagination. Are you willing and ready to doubt the reality of this world and your Ego? You have to realize that all of this is imaginary or unreal or else you'll never be able to change the attitude towards ego and moving on from it!

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I know the goal of ND is stillness in the mind, and not doing techniques. But sometimes I really enjoy experiencing things in my mind. Like the feeling of being held, going on a beautiful vacation. I came from LOA, and I am still figuring out how to "command/experience" reality. But now I feel this stillness and I think about my desires way less. There are times when I feel like I am waiting, but I return to the "I" and ask myself self-inquiry questions.

Stilness of the mind is not "the goal" it's actually getting rid of the mind (ego, identity). The mind is an idea, an illusionary dream Self entertain itself with. The dream/the mind by itself is not, it is because of you.

I'm not a strict non dualist but even so: quieting the mind is a technique to notice what you are by "getting rid of" what you are not. All the things they advise 'you' to do are actually for ego or in short: Self re-realizes itself. You are not the doer. You are Self and you are already realized. That's the core teaching.

Who came from LoA? Who is figuring things out? Who wants to command and/or experience? Self is already, Ego is not and that's why "you" ask yourself those questions, feel desires and waiting for things.

You are on the right path, keep going! Self knows, trust and rely on that. You cannot fail at being what you already are :)

[goddessxeffect]

Hi I am from a foreign country. Happy to meet you and sorry for this question

Have you manifested changing your birth year or other people's birth year?

Thank you.

Not a manifestation blog. Read the guidelines before you ask, please.

I could but why would I want to if I am neither born nor can die? Remember, you are asking a ND/Self-Realization "blogger" a question about manifestation, oh the blasphemy.

The idea you have of yourself was born at one point and is going to die. Does it really matter if something that is only mental has a different age? I mean, sure, you can choose another concept (also called Ego) which has a different birthyear.

Short rundown: only Egos are concerned with "Manifestation" or generally changing things about themselves but since YOU are giving it (Ego) Reality, it rules you and acts independently. It isn't without your belief in it! Stop listening to something that is born out of the idea "I am this person"

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Will just knowing that a problem will solve on its own and nothing bad can happen will do the work?

Well, the problem is but a identification with an idea (Ego) or awareness of it existing, it never really was so let it go. It already didn't empact you… how can it harm you "in the future"?

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I just saw a success story about a girl who follows Loa and Nondualism and says that she changed her reality and that she lives in a mansion with Jhon Cena and that she is a supermodel and singer when Jhon Cena's wife is not a singer or actress and she is married . It seems to me that she is lying and that is wrong since there are people who do have horrible situations and who hope that they can change it since we are God trapped in this ego but it is difficult to believe or understand seeing that there are people who lie. If I change something in my reality, such as being aware that everything is fine, then other people should also see that. Sorry for my english

All right, you probably want me to decide for you whether YOU can believe this or not, whether it's fake or true. Maybe you've already made your decision and just want validation from me, who knows. But do you really know what non dual means? Not two. Oneness.

How can you and that story both exist then? You are absolutely certain that you exist, right? But if this philosophy (AV) is true then everything except you is not what it seems (=real). Everything is one.

There is no such thing as “she practises both LOA and ND”. (You cannot practise ND, it's not a method). There is no such thing as "her success story". There are no "others who can or cannot see this".

"God trapped in Ego" ? What rock did you crawl out from under? I won't deny that I initially wrote/reblogged posts about ego, but I was obviously very confused. This was at least 6 months ago.

There is no ego, girl. Whatever you think you studied, it is NOT non-duality.

"it is difficult to believe or understand seeing that there are people who lie" THEN FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF!!!! This is repeated very often here. Why do you always need validation from others? If you don't want to believe it, then don't. I honestly don't know what you want to hear from me

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Ally! Hey ✨ https://www.tumblr.com/goddessxeffect/729724195744989184/hi-i-hope-you-dont-mind-answering-my?source=share

I didn't understand it? .. if I imagine something that's the ego daydreaming OK but when I imagine something knowing that it is what it IS ( if that make sense ? ) Then it's true? Like if I imagine something knowing that it's true then it means its not anymore "the ego daydreaming" ?? It's real right?

Imo she was on point with her explanation already 🤷 You just don't understand her… yet.

Self IS already everything, Knowing is not meant as a technique for Ego (what you people treat it as) but rather that Self literally knows that it is already being that, i.e. whatever you want to imagine to be or in general everything

I mean no "thing" actually is but you (Self) believing it is makes it so. This, your confusion, right there shows that this question is coming from Ego! You are still being Ego so yes, it is you being aware of the person daydreaming.

If I missed something, feel free to correct me @realisophie