TDP going "no, your trauma and displacement and hurt and anger is not justification for you to do the same to other people; yes, your pain and grief feel rightly insurmountable, and it is good and right if difficult to let yourself feel them; no, you do not have to grieve perfectly (there is no way to grieve that is not ugly and beautiful and raw); hurting other people for the sake of feeling in control will not solve your problems; no, the things we do for survival are not automatically good, and they can be terrible and horrific despite their perceived 'necessity'; yes, we can be better than all this. we must try."
anyway, support Gaza and Palestine, support the return of the hostages, and if you're unconvinced, please give this a read, written by someone who is Jewish, is born, raised, and currently living in Israel, and is anti-zionist and pro-Palestine, as well as this about why the issues are complicated not just politically but also socially and historically. that's all