I'm delighted also that you are finding (getting in touch with) your feminine side. You got it, kid. You can move easily between the genders, IF YOU KEEP COOL and don't worry or brood. Accept yourself for where YOU are. Don't worry about trying to be someone else. You are unique and beautiful. Being true to yourself isn't easy for anyone, but if you can keep from rollercoaster heights and depths of emotions (which I think you do well) - if you can understand that life is a constant battle and that being truly human calls for some pain as well as joy to allow for growth. If you can learn patience - real growth as a human is slow - you will find all the things you are and achieve much of what you want. Those of us who love you don't doubt for a moment that you can! - that you will!
- Eldon Murray to Lou Sullivan, Written by Lou Sullivan (1978)
Some words of wisdom from the late Eldon Murray. There is no gay liberation without trans liberation. Queer people from all walks of life need to stick together and establish community, for ourselves and each other. I love this letter because it shows such support and pride from a cis man to a trans man, in the 70s no less.














