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the taste of your promises settles sickly on my tongue.
i (F21) asked my ex bf (M23) to apologize to my friend (F21) before i even think about getting back together w him
for some context here, my ex and I were together for four years and we’ve been broken up for about six months now. He recently reached out, apologizing to me about everything he’s done and how he wants to change and get back together. My best friend and him do not get along at all, and she absolutely despises him. He said some disrespectful things to her in the past to his friends in which his friends told her. And she also wasn’t fond about how he treated me in the relationship. neither my ex and I in the relationship were perfect. We both made mistakes. And we were young. I feel this time he genuinely wants to make a difference. So when he reached out to me, I simply asked him to make amends with her. Not be friends. But just to apologize for his actions in the past. He was not very happy about it at first, but as I explained it, he started to understand. I told him that it was stressful for me, and it made me unhappy how much beef they had and it’s kind how the relationship ended beforehand. They both weren’t the nicest to each other. For example, when me and him broke up and a few months later, he started talking to a girl. my friend texted her and essentially ruined that talking stage for him. Which I didn’t agree with at all because we’re not together anymore and it wasn’t anyone’s business. I’m mostly concerned about the fact that she might get mad at me if he were to reach out and apologize. She is my roommate as well and i wanna keep the peace. And I know she probably won’t agree with us getting back together in the future. But I do love him a lot and me and him have been through so much together. And I genuinely believe that he’s changed and has been working on himself. is there something else i can do to make it so i can comfortably and potentially get back with him? ik if i do it will just be drama and my friend will get super upset if i do which is why i want them to make amends.
So you've been broken up six months, and only now he wants to change? He's just...telling you he wants to change? He hasn't...been using this half a year to...actually change? So...what's his plan for changing? He at least as a clear plan of resources and actions he's going to pursue, right?
Hmm.
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I promised myself I wouldn't recreate it, but I fell for it again...
I'm "Vin" for friends, you can call me that. I'm an Italian man born in the year 00. I love to eat, to train and socialize. I'm not interested in long distance relationships, they're overrated and not very credible. Here I'll post whatever comes to mind, be it food, gym photos, fitness checkups, or photos of myself in everyday clothes, as well as reposting what I like. I hope you enjoy, and welcome!
Si, sono Italiano, ma parlo inglese per una comodità generale.
All Talk, No Action
I hate when people get your hopes up… just to leave you hanging.
Me and this guy had a friends-with-benefits situation for almost a year when we were in college. We stayed cool, moved on, and lived our lives. Years later, he hit me up recently with:
"You were the best I ever had. I love you. I hope you’re single when I see you again. You’re perfect. I want to marry you. I miss our time together."
Sounds sweet, right? Except… Saturday came. Sunday came. Monday came. Today’s Tuesday. And nothing—no text, no call, no follow-up. Just silence.
He came at me so heavy right out the gate after us just catching up and seeing how each other are doing just to ghost me. Then, it's like don't say all that shit and you don't mean it. You are just saying it to get a rise out of me or have me daydreaming, thinking we could work.
I’m not here to chase someone who only shows up when it’s convenient. If you want me in your life, show up. If not, that’s fine—I’ve got better things to do than entertain ghosting and empty promises.
Life’s too short for people who say “I want you for forever" But you can't even text or call a bitch back? Pick a lane or step off. 🚩
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it is… —
more difficult to keep one dozen small promises than it is to keep One Big promise;
no guilt is felt when rationalizing the dissonance of most small things…
More difficult still, it is, to keep One small promise one thousand times, or over a lifetime;
no one is a saint, we normalize, and we learn to standardize forgiveness…
It is…
difficult to focus on a dream and feel the life of it before it is even born;
More difficult still, it is, to simply dream
when reality is lived in engulfing technicolor
and dreams are gray-scaled amorphous things lacking handles for a good grip.
…
One seed holds promises of greatness,
yet thousands of seeds go permanently dormant and we don’t even think this tragic.
I’m in a mood again tonight,
I’m restless
pulled by two conflicting dreams
paralyzed between old flight and new stability.
I’m in this mood still tonight,
grounded in disquietude
standing in instability like a trigger waiting,
like a trigger in waiting
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Day 22. November Series
i don’t want u to become the person u swore you’d never be but u are and there’s nothing i can do