#enabling

[leiatheia]

“my husband comes before my kids”

[hexpatient]

the terror of "enabling" mentally ill people is so deep that therapists think gaslighting me into the nth dimension is the safe option. like. literally abuse is preferable to what i Might Do if they Validate me Too Much. if they're too nice to me i might blow up the whole world or something.

[avidbeader]

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[greasepriest]

You had a hard day yesterday, you should ✨indulge✨ a little!

There’s no need to get out of those pajamas, or even get out of bed…

Let me spoil you a bit, a few snacks aren’t going to kill you, don’t even worry…💕

That’s it, just relax and let me take care of everything…

[thefluffhunter]

I do love enabling feedees to eat more. Your gut fully stretched and aches? Let out a few burps then guzzle some ice cream or eat a few more treats. Don’t think you’re big enough? Go ahead and eat another meal. Let’s see how much you can put down. Make your bellies hang lower and your body heavier.

[melblogsgfreethruptsd]

The hardest part of healing was realizing what I thought was the “good parent” was an enabler who never stood up for me. I even ended up losing him bc he chose my Nmom over a relationship with me.

[thepersonalwords]

To truly motivate others 1) discover what their motives, desires & drivers are 2) genuinely connect with and support them from the heart.

Rasheed Ogunlaru