#enbee problems

[my-name-is-quin]

Nonbinary Problems

I need more black jeans to wear my button up denim shirts with. I love those shirts, but blue denim on blue denim is just too much.

[my-name-is-quin]

Closeted Enby: Cutting My Hair

I love my parents. They're very supportive of me cutting my hair, however my mother is a bit worried. She supports me in my decision but is talking through it with me.

Mother: "It'll make you look less feminine. You don't wear makeup, or feminine clothes, and now short hair... Are you sure you wanna look like that? If its what you want, I'll support you. I just wanna be sure you know what you're getting into."

I really love the honest questions, concerns, and support I'm getting. I've never been normal, and my mom just wants to make sure she knows what I'm getting into. We live in a conservative area, I'll be prone to looks, remarks, etc. She also worries about my ability to date.

Mother: "Guys like long hair you know?"

To which I say, if my hair matters that much to them, I don't want to be in a relationship with them. Also, I'm not solely attracted to guys. I like all genders.

Once barber shops and salons open up, I have my mothers support to cut my hair above my shoulders. She wants me to try it and make sure I like it before I go further. If I wanna go shorter after two weeks, she said she'd be happy to take me to get a pixie.

I'm really happy. I'm gonna get looks, I know it. But I'm in a position where I can handle it. I just wanna be myself. I wanna be happy in my own skin.

[my-name-is-quin]

Nonbinary Problems

Tried painting my nails because I was bored in quarantine... I feel very unhappy and want to immediately remove the nail polish because it feels too feminine. So that's fun.