It feels like it's impossible to find anyone talking about romantic relationships with nonbinary people. We're so commonly talked about in terms of sex, but there's so little content involving anything loving twords an enby. I guess all our ideas are so gendered around romance it's very hard for people to imagine romance with someone who isn't gendered like that. I want to hear about people falling in love with enbies, about people kissing enbies, about staring into nonbinary eyes, about cuddling nonbinary bodies, if it's fiction I want to hear about the darker stuff too. I realize this might be why I always hated romance, because it involves performing roles I never want to perform. Even queer romance seems so deliberately designed to make sure same sex couples are as traditionally gendered and both gender conforming as possible. I know not everyone is attracted to us, it's ok if you're not. I just really want to see something.