#except emma

[xo-zozo]

who i thought of when i saw tgg cards

[sebastianshaw]

“You don’t need to know what I had for breakfast this morning, alright?”

"Emma, I do," Shaw stressed. "Listen, I am trying to get my body in perfect shape for the last few months before winter hits and I don't have time for it anymore. And I am just a few pounds from my goal weight. But I simply can't cut any more calories without going hungry. Whatever the hell it is you ate this morning, you didn't touch anything the rest of the time we were together, all day. I need to know how to do that. What's your secret? What the hell was that filling, Emma? And don't say Wagner's dick." @divminded

[thelanguageoflovers]

this is a formal apology to everyone I’ve hurt today

[in-wayyy-over-my-head]

I hate it when Emma’s parents visit. I deal with it because it’s good for Emma, but I hate it. It’s awkward and stressful and a lot of other things. I’m sure they feel the same way, which is probably why they almost never come.

I’m not Emma’s parent. I don’t want to be Emma’s parent, but I’m playing much more of the parent role than either of her parents. And it is not fun when they drop in for a quick drive by and decide to play mommy and daddy. 

It’s stressful when one of them visits, but both of them at the same time is much much much worse. This is only the second time both have visited together - Joe’s graduation was the first.

It’s not like its me vs. them. They loathe each other, but they each make sure to mention every little thing they have done for Emma and Joe to show what a great parent they are. My mother got involved and felt the need to one up them with all the stuff she does for Emma (which is much more than either of Emma’s parents) and made sure to talk about all that I do.

All of this took place during the hour everyone (including Emma’s boyfriend’s parents) was here before the prom to take pictures, etc.  It was nothing obvious, no big fight, no yelling, but all four of us (my mother, Emma’s mom, Emma’s dad and I) making nasty comments to each other while pretending to be nice. It was a master class in passive aggressiveness. I can’t even describe how stressful it was for me.

Emma and the boyfriend had plans to go to a party at a friend’s house after the prom. Emma’s dad was a total ass asking questions about it, would the parents be there, what was the transportation situation, etc. and pretended to think about whether he would “allow” her to go or not. Of course Emma’s mom had to chime in and give her opinion. I bit my tongue until it bled and didn’t say anything. I knew all the details of the party, and I had told Emma she could go weeks ago. Emma didn’t seem too concerned about her parent’s comments because she knew she was going regardless of what they said.

Part of me understands Emma is their child and they want to have the allusion of having some control when they really have none. But the other part of me just doesn’t care. Emma lives with me because it’s easier for her parents. She could live with either of them if they wanted, but they don’t.

Emma does not want to move but she would love for one of her parents to pretend to fight for her. They never will and it’s heartbreaking to watch - she wants them to want her so badly. I don’t think she will ever stop wanting this.

[seraphdreams]

I hate when people blindly defend their character. Like you have to accept that your character is a dick

exactly!!! like no character is perfect, sometimes there’s things that need to be pointed out

[bluthmodelhome]

yeah im probably finna sh*t myself in the library today...

[heloyello]

Having friends?

That’s cancelled

[andyoumattertome]

the best part of the episode: cain sat the in the toilet and getting dragged by moira, oh my :DD and people wonder why i love coira so much. :D