dear anon asking me about ftm and whatever
i know i probably sounded rude but let me explain why: ftm does not mean im a girl who dresses like a guy ok so to me called ftm all the time cuz people would rather say that then just say im a guy, really gets to me after a while. constantly asked if im ftm as if it even makes a difference... well to some, it does. theyre like "wow ur not a real guy u must be ftm r u? ahh yeah see u are that explains everything" which does bother me
also constantly being asked is just a reminder ok idk why people care or why they keep asking but it sucks and ok i follow like idk 7 biological guys and they have never been asked if theyre ftm ok and that makes me feel like shit. like im so obviously not like them and never will be and i will always have people in my business asking if im trans. the thing is i try not to keep it a secret but the way im treated makes me want to. i follow a guy who prefers to keep it a secret so i wont say his name but he is asked all the time if he is a girl or if he is ftm and people get mad at him for not giving straight answers ok as if theyre entitled to know or like it fucking matters or makes a difference
the thing is that im treated differently ok and it sucks alright even tho u said ur "cool" with it, u still asked. and idk why. idk why it matters or why u or anyone else feels like they should ask or why you ask certain people and not everyone else ok but it fuckin g sucks so if i seem rude there u go