Cottagecore has a lot of intra-community issues (trad stuff and racism mostly) but I find that the funniest is that so many of these people romanticise the farm/cottage life, but so few of them have ever, say, hand washed & line-dryed clothes, grown any plants, baked bread, or owned a single chicken. The aesthetic goes out the window when you actually start doing these things, because reality isn't an aesthetic. It kinda sucks.
Hand washing & line drying clothes is fun and can be eco friendly, but it's tedious, can damage your hands (and your clothes!) if you don't do it properly, and it's often looked down upon because it's associated with the "lower" classes; in some places it's illegal to line dry clothing because the "upper" classes think it's inappropriate. Gardening is hard work; foraging is incredibly dangerous unless you have years of experience under your belt. Baking bread is messy and you keep accidentlaly killing the yeast I'm so soSO sorry yeast particles baby come back :(
And chickens die so SO easily. My darling why are you the most edible creature in a forty mile radius. (That'd be a good pickup line maybe? IDK I'm ace…) Why am I having to fight foxes, bobcats, raccoons, and owls for your life. And why do I go through all of this work to protect you if you just decide to die because the thunder was too loud??? Chickens are neurodivergent confirmed… noise too loud, literally died because of it…
I… don't know where this post went qwq Everything the cottagecore girlies romanticize is hard work, dirty, sweaty, stinky, and very disappointing sometimes. I LOVE the aesthetic, but it's just as much a fantasy as mermaidcore, and I wish people realized that!















