Mar 7, 2024
“I thought weirdness was a good thing. I don’t mean that defensively, either. I thought it was something to be cultivated.”
Kaye Fierch, Holly Black, "Tithe"
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“I thought weirdness was a good thing. I don’t mean that defensively, either. I thought it was something to be cultivated.”
Kaye Fierch, Holly Black, "Tithe"
I've been thinking of changing my name again but I'm not sure. I don't want to keep confusing people even if people said it's fine and that I can use my past names, chosen names not deadname, as nicknames but... I'm not sure.
I'm also unsure because I don't know how to feel about my possible new name, my current name is fine and it only feels a tiny bit empty inside when someone calls me it but it also feels fine. My possible new name is also fine and feels a bit good to hear people call me it but it also just feels fine.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't know what I'm most happy with.
All I do know is that I really do like my possible new name, so if I don't use it then I may give it to Deonie. Though, people suggested that I both name myself and Deonie the name if I can't decide but I'm not sure. I'm so confused.
Hands
Hands reached out:
Healing hands,
Comforting hands,
Hands of acceptance.
Hands offered her
Knowledge
Wisdom
Truth
But they could not pull her
Out of the dark.
She had to do that herself.
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Howdy!!! So, a while back I was struggling with my identity, I rushed to tell people that I prefer he/him pronouns. But after a while, I changed my mind. For about a month, I started dressing feminine and going by my birth name. Now, I've gone back to preferring he/him, I'm more comfortable with it. But if I tell everyone, I'm afraid they won't take me seriously. How am I supposed to tell them? Is it normal to go through something like that? I feel like maybe it isn't and I'm wrong about this...
Ryan: There’s nothing wrong about this! People struggle with their identities all the time. Heck, there was a time when I thought I was cis and straight, and I was fucking wrong about that. Have you considered nonbinary identities? I’m not saying that’s what you are, only you can decide what term you best identify with. But this cycling pattern with your identity is quite similar to how I feel. Maybe you would identify with the term genderfluid? Plenty of people go through this, and you definitely shouldn’t feel bad for discovering more about yourself. To be quite frank, if people don’t take you seriously and give you shit for this, they’re not worth it. You deserve to have people in your life that are completely accepting and happy to follow you through your journey of discovering yourself. Please feel free to message me or send another ask if you’d like to talk about this more. We will always support you here, no matter what.
(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHyBT4UMPlM)
Hello internet,
Todays video is about how I react to my past hairstyles and I guess along the way how these hairstyles were a part of shaping my identity today. It's a longer video than usual but I may keep it that way for videos such as these. Hope you guys like it :)
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