#firendships

[brendazingming]

Friends Friends Friends, What it would be to have no friend to talk to or go out with. I can’t imagine a sitution like that, Hell I am not ready for anything like that in my whole life. So people maintain a well balanced relationship with your friends don’t do anything ugly to anyone,

[adulttalk]

I’m first year of uni and very lonely, i only have a few friends and we aren’t very close, i get really jealous when i see other people having the best times and loads of friends, especially when my friends do something with other people that they get along with really well. I hate feeling this way because i know jealousy is an ugly emotion and I know i don’t know how to feel better. The whole thing makes me feel like some sad lonely loser and it feels like i’m always going to be this way.

I have a few pieces of advice for this one.

1. Talk to your friends about how you feel. They may not realize how you’re feeling or that they’re leaving you out of things. Ask them to go out with them and hang out with them often to build the relationship further.

2. Find a different or more groups of friends. People that share interests with you and that you really connect and click with. You can do this by joining groups, clubs, organizations, sports, talking to people in your classes, going to social events such as sports games, dances, parties, etc. The easiest way to make new friends is to look at the people in your proximity.

3. Talk to a professional. If you’re feeling this way, it may be a sign that there’s an underlying mental health issue that you’re unaware of. If you’re on a college campus, they provide free and private counseling services.

4. Remember that it’s okay to not go out with your friends all the time, it’s okay to be jealous as long as you’re not taking it out on them for it. Learn to enjoy your time to yourself sometimes. Pick up hobbies, take yourself out, whatever it is that you want to do. You don’t always have to be with a big group of friends to have a good time.

Good luck xx

[alilsomnsomn]

Thanks to my campers, my coworkers are now referring to me as Some or Sommie. I am okay with this.

[thelondonflowerlover]

I am a moderate social drinker, give me flowers instead.

I am a moderate social drinker, give me flowers instead.

Beloved Flower Lover,

“Really!

I know you wanted to break you habit but it’s only a small drink hun”.

Forehead furrowed, mouths tensed…

“Look, I have been drinking everyday for a long time and you know that I was scared that it was controlling me, instead of me controling it”. “If you want to hang out with me, let’s go out for tea and cake instead”.

  A few hours later, they both turn up at the…

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[moonchildhoody]

Im so tired of ruining friendships :C

[naitosutaringu]

Now here’s the real question: how far can friends go and still be friends? Who is the weaker link when it comes to resolve to keep the relationship in the friendzone? A question I have to ask myself periodically throughout my life. And, perhaps for the first time, I find myself not worrying about it anymore. Because I’ve no longer the weakest link.

[smeximonki-blog]

[theageofinnocence-blog]

They say nothing lasts forever, but I don't believe that. I promise you that I will never forget you. You will always be my bestfriend, Always and Forever <3