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Virgil: I’m going to torture you now.
Remus: Kinky!
Virgil: Ahem, you are the brightest star in the sky.
Remus: What?
Virgil: I think you’re beautiful and lovely.
Remus: *backing away* W-wait, no—
Virgil: Your feelings are valid and you deserve to be loved.
Remus: I NEED A SAFE WORD
Comic #326: Exercise on low battery - Website links: Here! If you're a Whiner, whinger, doomer, Debbie Downer, belly acher, grumpy pants, crybaby, glass half empty grumbler like me, you're in good company ;)
We need to teach people to let themselves have horrible thoughts more often.
Not in the "haha give in to your intrusive thoughts" way but in the "so you thought about killing this person, okay, why?"
Trying to be pure inside your head is more harmful than good, it just makes you afraid of being a bad person, it gives you anxiety, which in turn can cause intrusive thoughts to show up more often, it makes you afraid of being "found out" when in reality no one knows what you think!
No one is going to judge you for having the most violent, twisted fucked up revenge fantasy, and if you relax and let your mind wander instead of keeping it on a tight leash in fear of having Society-Non-Approved-Thoughts™, you'll be more in touch with yourself.
Which isnt to say your violent thoughts are your True Self, but neither are your sanitized "i have to think nice thtings all of the time" thoughts
Everyone in his family . . . believed in stoicism as if it were a religion. They all spent an extraordinary amount of time straightening their backbones and stiffening their upper lips. It seemed quite exhausting. Ben couldn't do it any more. God knows he'd tried. 'Oh, for heaven's sake, Benedict,' his mother said. 'Pull yourself together.' She had run out of patience with him long ago. 'Always look on the bright side,' she had regularly (and rather relentlessly) counselled her offspring throughout their childhood, an injunction that made her seem warmer than she was. In Ben's opinion, if you spent too long trying to look on the bright side you eventually became dazzled and couldn't see anything properly at all.
Kate Atkinson, from Death at the Sign of the Rook
People in the Fruits Basket fandom need to stop using themes and symbolism as a deflection for horrible nonsensical writing.
Yes I am talking mostly about the ending. No way in hell would Uo and Hana ever be friendly with someone who abused and tried to murder their best friend. Everything surrounding Akito's ending is horseshit, people are way too charitable and trusting of her. She has done everything in her power to hurt and manipulate those around her and she just tried to murder another two people. But she cries and feels slightly bad for it so she is instantly changed overnight and people just immediately believe her when she says she is going to be better.
Their is a huge difference between trusting and forgiving someone who has hurt you vs having illogical kindness to the point of harm to yourself and others.
morning gang take ur meds or i’m gonna spit on u (in a bad way😕)
just wondering how everyone fells about forced positivity?
cuz i think it sucks
