I am a trans man. I am also a mother. These two things do not contradict in my mind. I wasn't a seahorse dad, I gave birth while still identifying as/believing I was a woman and raised my child to call me "mom." This is part of my identity just as much as being a trans man is.
I've been kicked out of every mom group and every mom forum. I'm taking motherhood away from women. I'm invading safe spaces for mothers. I'm a gross man preying on single moms and their children. I'm not allowed at Muffins with Mom because I'm a man. I'm not allowed at Donuts with Dad because I'm a mom.
Fine then. I'll just take my kid out for ice-cream.
This is transandrophobia













