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I am a trans man. I am also a mother. These two things do not contradict in my mind. I wasn't a seahorse dad, I gave birth while still identifying as/believing I was a woman and raised my child to call me "mom." This is part of my identity just as much as being a trans man is.

I've been kicked out of every mom group and every mom forum. I'm taking motherhood away from women. I'm invading safe spaces for mothers. I'm a gross man preying on single moms and their children. I'm not allowed at Muffins with Mom because I'm a man. I'm not allowed at Donuts with Dad because I'm a mom.

Fine then. I'll just take my kid out for ice-cream.

This is transandrophobia

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*makes a vague post about being a teen boy with an empty look in my eyes* *gets surprised when boys relate to it* *advocates for genocide*

like genuinely what the fuck ?

This is transandrophobia

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trfs online claiming I (transfem) should have known I would get abused by my trans ex boyfriend because its what "TMEs" do to trans women.

it is DISGUSTING to simultaneously devalue a persons experience with abuse AND dehumanize an entire group of people because a single person in that group they know nothing about did bad things.

i love and stand with trans men for ever

This is transandrophobia, and we appreciate your solidarity <3

And also fuck your ex that guy sucks >:[

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didn't expect the silly bunny blog to end up acting like this💀💀💀 pathetic behavior

As a bunny myself, blocking this blog brought be great pain.

This is transandrophobia

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i followed a transfem music artist on youtube and she made a community poll that said "pronoun check" and the options were she/her, they/them and it/its. she added a comment saying "people who are complaining about not having he/him just makes me hate men more"

imagine being trans and literally erasing other trans people

This is transandrophobia

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maybe i'm confused but like.. don't trans men have a degree of privilege over women? that doesn't discount the fact you're oppressed for being trans but gay men and black men are oppressed for other reasons and are still privileged in other ways over women. like.. idk if a person is fully passing as a man doesn't that give them male privilege?

No because any male privilege we could possess is extremely conditional and can be taken away at any moment, and closet privilege isn't a thing. We can have situational privileged, which we can absolutely talk about and how it reflects on what society deems desirable, but the same can be said of women too.

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"i dont hear about trans men being murdered and abused in the news!!!" YES BECAUSE ALL OUR DEATHS AND MURDERS ARE REPORTED AS CISGENDER WOMEN BECAUSE NO ONE FUCKING SEES US!!!!!!!

This is transandrophobia

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my mom tells me that chest binders are what corsets used to be and that wearing a binder is actually a very feminine and conformist thing to do. is this transandrophobia or does she have a point?

That's transandrophobic as fuck and also just not true?????