Author Note: This post will be a long one about what I experienced and went through from Froggz and their discord server Frog Empire. If you wish to comment on this post, please do so with reblog only. I will not be mentioning this server or person ever again and will not discuss them in any other form (asks, comments, reblogs on other posts). Thank you.
Disclaimer 1: Please do not harass or attempt to intimidate anyone featured in the post. This is a post dedicated to telling my side of the story and to own up to my wrong doings. I DO NOT CONDONE HARASSMENT.
Disclaimer 2: I am 16. Froggz and others mentioned are 13-15. We are children and children make mistakes. Please keep this in mind while reading.
You have been warned.
Discussion #1: Froggz (pt 1)
I met Froggz in mid July of 2024. At the time I was known as RayHandle and owned the now deactivated blog @pimpin-not-simpin-val. Froggz has known me far longer than I have known them for they were a fan of the blog story me and my friends (at the time) were making with those blogs.
James, one of the blog runners for @/luci-duckking, introduced me to Froggz and in part, the Frog Empire server. During that time, I was looking for some friends so I was glad to be a part of a new community.
As time continued, I became very close with the members in the server. Specifically, Froggz and James, to the point that I had believed to have caught feelings for James. He shared feelings so we started dating.
(Note: At the time, James and I were both Polyamorous for this next section.)
Not a month later, Froggz confessed to me. Knowing full well that I was with James. Now, I was a little startled at the fact of Froggz confessing to me. So, I told them I felt the same way and I was wrong. I got with Froggz because I felt confused on what to do, and my people pleaser instincts kicked in.
At this point in time, I did not know Froggz' age. I once asked before all the dating had begun, but they brushed it off and said it was a personal thing. So, I didn't want to push further.
I should've asked and it was my responsibility to ask them of such things as the older party. I understand that now and It is my fault for not knowing.
Discussion #2: Frog Empire
The moment Mae accused me of grooming Froggz, I was berated with hate and insults in the server. Keep in mind, these were the people I was with for 5 months and they turned their backs on me based on no evidence and a hunch. I have no hate towards Mae and I don't want them to apologize. However, it's the fact that Froggz went along with it even though we were close at the time. I feel betrayed and hurt.
Discussion #3: Conclusion
To end off this massive tangent, I do not wish harm upon Froggz. I just hope that when they're older, see what they've done to me and most likely others and try to improve.
I also would like to add that I am sorry for any other wrong doings I have done. It was idiotic of me to get in a relationship with Froggz to begin with based solely on pity.
