My friend only talks to me when I help her with her problems. The minute I mention mine she ignores me Literally will read the message, ignore it and stop talking. I need to talk about things, I dont know what im doing wrong. Thnx Please tag CasseyL
I can reassure you, you’re not doing anything that is wrong. To be honest, your friend does not sound much of a friend. Friendship is all about mutual understanding. It has to go both ways. She mostly sound like a bad friend. Bad friends think that's it okay not to give their effort to put back into the friendship at all, which drains a person out. A true friend is someone who is always there for you, who listens, who tries their best to cheer you up, who is loyal, etc. If you can’t find these qualities in your friend, then love she’s not good to you.
Now, let’s not jump to conclusions. What I would suggest you is talk to your friend. Maybe she’s not doing it on purpose, maybe she did not realize the way she acts with you. Sit with her and tell her all about it. Have a deep conversation, tell her all about how you feel that she is never here when you need her. Now that you’ve talked to her, if she still does not change her behaviour, I’d tell you to let her go and find a better friend. It’s not fair at all that when she needs you, she knows where to find you and when it’s you that need her, she suddenly disappears.
You deserve a friend who is gonna be truly by your side when you need her and vice-versa.