#ftm binding

[whollyshimmeringsword]

Link is a non-binary trans man. I believe that so completely that I forget other people don't. Thinking Link is cisgender is insane. Like that's the most t boy I've ever seen someone tboy. That's a goblincore trans masc that collects bones and trinkets wtf.

[thefrontbutches]

i taped my chest for the first time the other day and the results were much better than i’ve had with any other form of binding but the tape was super itchy!

i also wasn’t able to remove it with oil and it damaged my skin, and even with some oil i found afterwards it left adhesive on my skin.

i’ve ordered some oil and adhesive remover that i can use next time, but i was wondering if anyone on here had any tips for protecting my skin or preventing the itchiness?

i already take an antihistamine every day 🤷

i’m probably not going to do it again until next month when i have a concert booked and will be away for 3 days as to let my skin heal 🥴

[actualstardust]

eenie meenie minie moing between a binder (i can’t breathe on my best day i also can’t exercise in this) or trans tape (SOOO ITCHY MY GOD SO ITCHY and causes rashes only two times i’ve worn it)

[04thz2]

Binding unsafely: a retrospective on my teenage recklessness

Mild tw: brief ED mention

Okay I know I have talked about this before, but for the love of god bind safely. I have done some really stupid things before, and I can tell you it hurt like hell and I'm just incredibly lucky it didn't permanently fuck me over. When I was 13, before I even knew being trans was a thing, I started "binding" my chest simply bc I knew I hated it and I didn't want to have breasts. But I knew NOTHING about binding safely, and I was seriously endangering my health.

We had something similar to this at home, and I used to wear that thing for around 7-10 hours a day, usually folded in half. I could not breathe properly, I had red marks all over my skin from chafing, and my ribs HURT.

Eventually I switched to wearing about 4 sports bras layered ontop of each other, which was an improvement, but it still restricted my breathing, not to mention it restricted proper bloodflow.

I got my first real binder for my 16th birthday, after coming out to my parents. And that worked perfectly well for a few years, since by then I had learned about binding safely and I was making sure I didn't exceed 8 hours a day.

And then I started recovering from my ED. And I gained weight, but I kept using my binder until I realized it was hurting, and I stopped binding for a long time.

When I was 18 I finally got a new binder, which fits me well and I do still use, even if I don't bind all that often anymore (mostly due to asthma complications)

So just a recap on the general rules of binding safely:

• Always, ALWAYS wear a binder in the proper size

• NEVER wear your binder for more than 8 hours a day

• Try to take breaks. When I used to bind daily I would go to the bathroom every 2 hours or so to take it off and stretch

• Make sure to keep your binder clean

• Listen to your body. I know dysphoria is the worst feeling in the world, but if you feel any pain or discomfort, or if your breathing feels resteicted, TAKE THE BINDER OFF ASAP

In other words: Be smarter than teenage me. Love y'all <3 Be safe out there

//your trans big brother

[z0mb13-gutz]

CAN ANY TRANS PEOPLE RELATE!!?

Do any other trans guys feel dysphoria when they put on their binder because you can see your chest underneath, like it’s not flat and you can see your chest. When I got my binder I was expecting it to be a brilliant thing and it was but idk I have mixed feelings and wanna see if anyone relates

[alix-is-o-a-k]

to tumblr’s trans people: I’m getting my first binder soon but I don’t know what brand to use. Which is your favorite? (I’m looking for something with a lot of compression)

If you’re cis and this shows up on your blog, PLEASE REBLOG FOR A BIGGER SAMPLE SIZE!

edit: I can’t change the poll, but after some research, it seems that gc2b’s binders are incredibly unsafe. Just want to put this here in case another trans guy is looking at this poll. Underworks seems to be the best option as far as I’ve seen from other people.

Binders

Underworks

Gc2b

For Them

Spectrum Outfitters

XUJI

Urbody Co

Shapeshifters

T-kingdom

Idtswch

other (tags)

see results

multiple (tags)

Voting ended onAug 29, 2023

[sapphuric-acid]

Binder PSA/Wearing Guide

This post was inspired by this comic, which made me realize that binding isn't supposed to hurt at all.

For reference: this is what I look like when only wearing a tank top.

The most common measurements you need for choosing a binder is your chest, waist, and sometimes underbust. It's fairly easy to find guides on how to measure these things online.

For both of the binders I will be modeling, all I needed was my chest and waist measurements:

Chest (at fullest point): ~36 in

Waist: ~30 in

First Binder: Spectrum Outfitters (M)

My first binder was from Spectrum Outfitters. I was in between a Small and a Medium, but I sized up to make sure it would fit my chest.

I will be wearing the tank top under the binders for the purposes of this review, both for the sake of modesty and because I find it gives a better grip on my skin, making for fewer readjustments.

Now I'll start by saying that this binder is, generally speaking, really comfortable. The panel is very thick, and I like the texture of the straps and back. I firmly believe that the problems I have are simply a sizing issue, and I would have bought from this company again if they hadn't suspended shipping to my country.

Now for the actual fit. As you can see, the fabric scrunches up along my midsection, and the neckline bunches up due to the way it's stretched. While some spillage is to be expected in all binders, my chest feels very "overflowy" in this one. What's more, pretty much as soon as I put it on, I feel pain along the sides, namely along my back and lower ribs. I can't typically wear this binder for more than 4 hours, and that really made me put off wearing it even when I had the opportunity.

I didn't make anything of all this for several reasons:

I'm very short, with a narrower waist and really wide hips. As such, I'm used to clothes not fitting me the way they're supposed to. In fact, it's very common for me to be really uncomfortable in clothes that I can "technically" fit into.

I'm super out of shape and have a mild case of scoliosis. That means my muscles, especially in my chest and back, are really weak. As such, I expect to be in pain after doing anything unusually strenuous, and that I'll either build up the muscle I need or get used to the pain.

While I've read the guides about how a binder is supposed to fit, I've also heard plenty of people talk about how uncomfortable they are, and in my brain there isn't a very clear distinction between "discomfort" and "pain".

New Binder: Flavnt (L)

Now disclaimer: I just got this binder yesterday, so this is much more of a "first impressions" style of review. I was once again between sizes (this time Medium and Large) and decided to size up. The fabric for this one is similar to Spectrum's but slightly thinner. The back of the Flavnt binder is only one layer, compared to Spectrum's 2 layers, and while the panel is still very sturdy, it's a lot thinner. I suspect these differences may be informed by the companies' locations: while Spectrum is located in the UK, Flavnt is based in the state of Texas, meaning that its products are likely designed with a more heat-friendly construction.

While still a bit of an odd fit (and I worry that if this binder shrinks after washing I won't be able to wear it for long), you can see that it's a lot closer to my normal size. I don't feel very restricted in my movements, I can comfortably take a deep breath, and it was much easier to put on than my other one. While I worry about how this will fit in the long term, as of now I'm fairly confident and secure in this binder and size.

So the takeaway: you can find a binder that fits without hurting. A binder is supposed to be mildly uncomfortable at worst, and it shouldn't be squeezing your ribs when you try and breathe deeply. If you don't think your new binder fits, see if you can return it!

[arloprince]

trans self-care is binding safely and taking thirst traps for the euphoria✨🏳️‍⚧️