✶﹕imagine﹒﹒
for ftm yumeshippers ! !
your f/o helping you with your tape. they help you apply it at the right angle , cut off the corners . they watched videos with you when you first got it so they could help you apply it correctly . they buy more tape & oil when they notice youre running out . they help you take it off , peeling it slowly and making sure not to hurt you.
your f/o helping you with your binder. doing the proper stretches before and after . reminding you to take it off so you dont hurt yourself . choosing the right one and helping you take your measurements.
your f/o going to your T appointments with you. they hold your hand while they draw your blood , listening intently to your doctor . they ask how they can help with your injections / patches / gel
your f/o helping with your T gel / injections / patches. wiping the injection site , carefully putting the needle in , making sure they dont hurt you. reminding you to apply your gel and talking to you while you do. helping you choose the best place for your patches for this round
your f/o going to all your top surgery appointments with you. they ask the doctor how to help you after your surgery , any risks they should look out for , what they should buy for you , what food they should make for you. driving you to your surgery appointment and waiting patiently while youre operated on. cheering you on when you get to see your flat chest for the very first time.
for those who want phalloplasty , your f/o helping you throughout the entire thing. taking you to your appointments , keeping your donor site sanitized and healthy , cheering you on the entire way.
your f/o helping with your dysphoria. maybe they work out with you , maybe they help you find an outfit that makes you feel better , maybe they say the right words to help. constantly calling you handsome, emphasizing that you're their *boy* , that youre the best boyfriend/husband in the world. correcting anyone who misgenders you.
your f/o NEVER misgendering you. other people always seem to slip up , intentionally or not , but theyve never been like that. since day one theyve used your pronouns and called you the correct terms. it comes to them like second nature , like they dont see your gender as some out-of-place thing. they dont have to make an active effort about it because theyve never had an issue with it. theyre your biggest advocate and theyre one of few people who have always easily seen you for who you are.
your f/o going to pride & trans events with you. maybe theyre trans too , or theyre just there to be an ally. they treat all your trans friends the same as anyone else. they share the joy and pride .
your f/o protesting with you , fighting for your rights. they refuse to be compliant with the status quo . they want a better world for you and all other trans people . they take time to learn the issues and how to fight against them . they advocate against anti-trans legislation . they help spread awareness
your f/o loves you for who you are. they dont want you to be anyone else , as long as youre happy in your identity . they support you , they care for you , they love you . you are not a freak or weird or bad to them . your existence is beautiful and they love you for being so passionately yourself . 🏳️⚧️🩵
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shadow milk doubles dni ! ! remember you are so incredibly valid and your f/o loves you so much ♡
