for yume/selfshippers who feel invisible, undervalued, underappreciated, etc . if you feel like you and your achievements go by without a second thought, this is for you ♡
your f/o sees your achievements. even if its just something like a good grade on a test you were scared of failing, they see it. they see you. they'll yell with joy and jump around with you and hug you and tell you a thousand words of how proud they are. they buy you a cake for the occassion, with a message celebrating what you did. awards, graduation, promotions, events, etc. they see it all. they know how hard you work and they'll celebrate it just as much as you need them to
they see the work you do. whether its art, music, writing, household chores, your job, etc, they see you !!! you put so much labor into it and they love how hard you work. they'll celebrate when you get something done, treat you to a snack or something yummy. they were there as you put your sweat and blood in, and theyre here at the finish line with you.
if you make art, theyre so incredibly happy to see it. they love watching your process and ask you what youre going to create next. when you finish a piece, they get super excited and start asking you about all the details. they point out the colors you use, the line work you do, the way it all blends together beautifully. they love your artwork and are always supporting your next project
when you talk about something exciting but nobody listens, your f/o picks up the conversation again. they ask you to finish your sentence. they listen intently, and respond with questions that make you even more excited about the topic. no matter how silly or little it may seem, they take every word you say as if its the most important thing in the world. they love hearing you talk and they never want you to dull your voice
whenever you feel alone in a room full of people, your f/o manages to find you. when you're standing against the wall and about to slink out the door, they suddenly take your hand and pull you to them. their eyes light up as they see your face, and they start talking to you as if youre the most interesting person ever. maybe they drag you to their friends, who welcome you and make you feel like you belong. suddenly, youre not alone anymore. somebody wants you there. somebody cares.
when you're feeling upset, your f/o notices. they see the way your eyes fall to the floor, how you're less talkative. they notice when something goes wrong and they care about it. they ask you whats bothering you, offer to listen and give comfort. they make time for your issues because how you feel is important too. even if its just as silly as your favorite pen dying, they still care and still want to make sure you're okay.
your f/o SEES you. every part of you. your joy, your sadness, your work, your achievements, your hobbies, everything. they see it and they care. with them, you'll never feel like glass again. youre no longer invisible. youre no longer on the sidelines. they see you. they love you. they care about you. you are so incredibly important and they make sure to remind you of that.
hii everyone , made this as a comfort post because i apparently got an art award for graduation and didnt know because the mail invite was never opened. i feel kind of invisible right now so i wanted to channel that into something other people could find comfort in . im gonna be making some pride posts super soon , if you have suggestions feel free to send them to my asks :)
shadow milk doubles, pro/darkship dni. remember that your f/o loves you more than anything and they see you for everything you are ♡ you are loved, you are wanted
